cuckychuck
Male
No I don't, I don't care what shane diesel does, he's not the stamp of approval on the topic.
And as for the the question you asked:
1. You as a white person/couples have no say in the discussion. Period
2. I have no issue with it all, I say it, my family says it, black friends say it. The videos are a reflection of our realities, and the reality is most of us use the word, have used it and will continue. And most likely we will never have an explanation as to why, we never have to begin with.
In my opinion, Under no circumstances should a white person use that word, in the sheets or out of them. I'm never going understand how a black man would even be turned on by that, but that's just meP
I call BS on your #1. Period.