If you let men suck your dick, you's gay, not a bull

Classy and gracious as usual, guys 😘

He still owes you an apology tho lol throwing accusations around wildly (especially when he's guilty of what he's accusing you of) definitely warrants an apology.
For the record, I also didn't see an apology for saying we were deceptive, but he hasn't remained insistent or painted us as predators the way many here have, and he did communicate that he misunderstood, so I'll take it!

Looks like I failed to get out in front of the name-calling, though. Oh, well.
 
When our bull fucks my wife I usually suck his dick but im not gay just feel the moment to do it and if he lets me
Most of the time they will ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ :rolleyes:
Well ...this one's up for debate ? Is he gay ? Half gay ?? Here's one for ya ... Rudy Gay 🏀???
Is he Bisexual ? (Or just Bi ~By the mouth ?!?:rolleyes:)
I dunno ?!?
In my Dave Chappelle voice: "Could somebody please ... find Ja Rule, get hold of this mufuka so I can make sense of all this ?!?
dave chappelle where is ja GIF
🧸
 
Well ...this one's up for debate ? Is he gay ? Half gay ?? Here's one for ya ... Rudy Gay 🏀???
Is he Bisexual ? (Or just Bi ~By the mouth ?!?:rolleyes:)
I dunno ?!?
In my Dave Chappelle voice: "Could somebody please ... find Ja Rule, get hold of this mufuka so I can make sense of all this ?!?
dave chappelle where is ja GIF
🧸

Seriously bruh...
Guys are really" fudging the numbers" about homosexuality lately!
 
Almost as frequently as others insist on terms like "gay" and "homosexual," to describe people who are to varying degrees "bisexual." 😉
Nahhh.....🤨
Trust me 1000% you and I are not in the same universe. I don't use the term straight loosely

Whatever Arrangement you and GEMINI have go ahead and play with the terms to make y'all thing work. But straight men don't play with words like that
 
Nahhh.....🤨
Trust me 1000% you and I are not in the same universe. I don't use the term straight loosely

Whatever Arrangement you and GEMINI have go ahead and play with the terms to make y'all thing work. But straight men don't play with words like that
I don't use the term straight loosely either. I've never claimed to be completely straight.

What word do you use for a woman who enjoys experiences with both sexes? Is my wife homosexual? A lesbian? It seems to me that if she has complete freedom to see whomever she chooses, and she chose a male husband, a male boyfriend, and her male partners outnumber her female ones by a ratio of about 7 or 8 to 1, that most would call her "bisexual." Most even acknowledge that she's closer to straight than lesbian. They enjoy how much she enjoys their male bodies, so none of them have been like, "nope, you a dyke, tryna fudge the numbers." So what word would you use?
 
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So, just in case someone is new here or new to this thread and haven't figured it out yet, (see the nonsense and justification posted above and throughout this thread) although there are some straight people here, this site is a essentially a hangout for bisexual and gay men, or women with bi or gay husbands looking for action. Apparently, that's it in a nutshell.

I'd say to the straight males, don't invest much of your time at this place because chances are you're in the minority. If you insist on spending time here, try to screen your potential mates carefully, because again, the gays are everywhere.

Good luck if you hope to keep them out of the bedroom if you make contact with their wives. Chances are they might say it's a no go, in which case you'll want to say fine and just bounce.

It is what it is.
 
So, just in case someone is new here or new to this thread and haven't figured it out yet, (see the nonsense and justification posted above and throughout this thread) although there are some straight people here, this site is a essentially a hangout for bisexual and gay men, or women with bi or gay husbands looking for action. Apparently, that's it in a nutshell.

I'd say to the straight males, don't invest much of your time at this place because chances are you're in the minority.
Being straight isn't what puts you in the minority. There are more straight than gay people in the world. What puts you in the minority is giving a rat's ass how others identify. My wife's had more strictly straight partners than ones who wanted any bi play (though again, by a lot narrower margin than many would guess). Do you know how many of those 100% straight guys were pressured for contact with me? Zero. You know what they said to avoid it? "I don't want any contact with your hubby." That's it! They didn't assume we were lying when we said, "no worries!" A few of them have asked her if I'm bi, and not a single one of them argued with her about terminology when she said, "he can be a little bi at times. His main interest is me, but he will fluff you if I tell him to. Don't worry, we can just make him watch if you're not into that." Virtually every one of them who asked "was into that" though.

If you insist on spending time here, try to screen your potential mates carefully, because again, the gays are everywhere.
That's true. There are straight, gay, and bisexual people all over the place. If that worries you, you might want to seek help.

Good luck if you hope to keep them out of the bedroom if you make contact with their wives.
I mean, what the fuck would you expect to happen? Even 90% of the completely straight cucks/stags I know want to be in the bedroom. The interest is in watching their wives receive pleasure. My wife goes on dates without me, but it's always her preference to have me there. It's not some shady secret you just uncovered. What in the world do you think men get out of it, if not to at least watch?

Chances are they might say it's a no go, in which case you'll want to say fine and just bounce.

It is what it is.
Out of curiosity, how many couples have told you it's a no go if you don't want any bi contact? We've told zero men that, after a decade and a half in the lifestyle. You're right about one thing, though: if anyone tells you that something is a no go, then yes, "you'll want to say fine and just bounce." Doing anything else would make you a *******. "It is what it is."
 
So, just in case someone is new here or new to this thread and haven't figured it out yet, (see the nonsense and justification posted above and throughout this thread) although there are some straight people here, this site is a essentially a hangout for bisexual and gay men, or women with bi or gay husbands looking for action. Apparently, that's it in a nutshell.

I'd say to the straight males, don't invest much of your time at this place because chances are you're in the minority. If you insist on spending time here, try to screen your potential mates carefully, because again, the gays are everywhere.

Good luck if you hope to keep them out of the bedroom if you make contact with their wives. Chances are they might say it's a no go, in which case you'll want to say fine and just bounce.

It is what it is.
Yeah bruh I'm done with this thread. You made good points early on then others went all 'Gay Mafia' on us.
No one even sticking to the original point every alphabet guy here trying to justify his "Gayness levels", smh..

Peace out ✌🏽
 
Yeah bruh I'm done with this thread. You made good points early on then others went all 'Gay Mafia' on us.
No one even sticking to the original point every alphabet guy here trying to justify his "Gayness levels", smh..

Peace out ✌🏽
Yeah, I knew you wouldn't be able to answer that question. It's "bi" when it's ladies, and that's not a problem. But it's "gay" when it's men.

There is nothing to "justify" about any "level of gayness." 0% is ok, 100% is ok, and so is anywhere in between. Any "man" who can't even say the word "bisexual" is a homophobe. Pure and simple. You're so damn scared it short circuits your brain. You start being distrustful of everyone honest enough to tell you they're part of a bi couple, before you even know what they are into. You're so worried you might catch teh gay that you'll cut and run from the entire scene when you learn that you were near a bi dude, who was nobody's deceptive hubby, who told you openly that he swings both ways, and didn't try to make a pass at you. There is no way around that. You're straight up scared. You can't even be in the same room with a bisexual male without completely losing your *******, even if he is completely honest, and keeps completely to himself.

Every single dating site has multiple ways people can use to describe themselves, because there are many types of people in the world. Your need to put 100% of the people who are less than 100% straight in a single box is very strange. They all choose the labels they choose because they're looking for something specific, and recognize the differences between each other. Why is it so difficult for you?

At least @KingHandsome99 was man enough to admit he has a problem with bisexuals. It's not a logical problem, and it's still based on some weird fear, given that gay men and lesbians are ok with him but supposedly bi people won't "stay in their lane," but at least he admits his prejudice.
 
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If bisexuals aren't straight, they're not gay, either. You can say they're neither straight nor gay, but somewhere in between. Or if you prefer, you can say they're a little of each. But if they're attracted to both men and women, you can't say they're homosexuals. They're not. They're bisexuals. And they pose you no threat, categorically speaking. They're just people who like what they like, same as you.
 
I agree. But we have another group to consider: those who are submissive to the point of sucking or fucking large black cock as part of a kink. They don't want men, per se. That to me is a degree of cuck, and it's not gay, and not bi. The bull who participates in order to dominate is not interested in men, per se, either. He is a degree of bull, in a way more hard-core than the average bull.
I fall into that category myself. The only times I have been into sexual contact with other males was in a D/s context, AND I'm not interested if it doesn't involve my wife in some capacity. But if you're open to sexual encounters with members of both sexes, that's literally the definition of bisexual. I'm not equally attracted to members of both sexes. I'm far closer to the straight side than the gay side, but the fact that there are situations in which I'm ok with sexual contact with the same sex absolutely puts me somewhere on the spectrum of bisexuality.

I'm not saying it to judge you. Apparently we have similar tastes. But we're not doing anyone any favors denying it. I'm making the points I'm making because I think it's weird how some of these homophobes refuse to say that some guys are bi and instead call them all "gay," as if bisexuality is like Voldemort and we're all supposed to avoid saying the word, or we might give them too much power. Well, if there's nothing wrong with being bisexual, then it shouldn't be hard to admit that we have at least incidental bisexual tendencies. It's literally what the term means.
 
Most of the married men are bi and and most of these so called bulls are so thirsty they will engage in that activity but I will say this with Splash Mocha in Atlanta I'm sure you will have alot of this activity going on
 
He right, these there are a lot of Married couples that want Bi males and it crazy, I turned down many meet ups lately because they want there hubby to suck a BBC. There also many black men that would do whatever to get some married white pussy. Well I know who I am and I love women not guys. But no disrespect to any gay or bi guys or couples. I know that ain't me.
Basically.
 
My idea of bi is a general attraction to both sexes. That's not what this is.
In my opinion, the entire problem this thread points out is fear. The vocal few straight guys who are too insecure to say, "I'm straight," and let that be that, are afraid that bisexual men won't respect their boundaries, and that we're all misrepresenting ourselves to lure them into an uncomfortable situation. I realize you're not trying to be deceptive, but until you can say you're bi to whatever degree you're bi, nobody is ever going to care about the circumstances in which you might be ok with male/male contact. They're just going to think you're in denial.

The thing is, bisexual doesn't mean equal parts gay and straight. I don't mean to repeat myself, but look up the Kinsey scale. It literally takes 30 seconds to understand and digest, and makes it very clear that not everyone fits neatly into a tidy little binary box. If we want people to understand and respect each other, we need to people to understand that there's an entire spectrum of orientations out there, and there's no reason to deny being wherever you are on that spectrum. THEN, everyone can talk about all the specifics about our own preferences without being treated like some kind of sub-human sexual deviant.
 
Most of the married men are bi and and most of these so called bulls are so thirsty they will engage in that activity but I will say this with Splash Mocha in Atlanta I'm sure you will have alot of this activity going on
The men we've encountered at Splash Mocha didn't seem any thirstier than they are here. In fact, by and large they seem like guys who get plenty of action. If they didn't, they wouldn't want to risk spending hundreds of dollars to go there and compete with hundreds of other black men.

But if you're looking for full disclosure, our first Splash Mocha was in Atlanta, and the only guy my wife brought back to our room stopped in the middle of fucking her and said, "tell your husband to pull my dick out, suck it, and put it back in his wife's pussy." He was very clearly not just "engaging in that activity" because he was so thirsty. The deal was sealed long before HE brought up the topic.

More recently, we went to Splash in Houston, and TONS of very friendly bulls were very much into the cuckold dynamic and power exchange with cuckold couples, and even invited us to cuckold-specific Telegram groups and cuckold meet-and-greets in private hotel rooms. My wife got more action than she did in Atlanta, and I had literally zero bisexual contact.

The notion that bi play is always at the insistence of the couple is false, as is the idea that cuckoldry and bisexuality are synonymous. I know plenty of cucks who are straight and plenty who are bi, and same thing with the bulls I know. Some are straight, some are bi. The cross-section at Splash Mocha was no different.
 
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