How to get her there

[IronLion1986]

I've always been a fan of interracial porn. I wouldn't consdier myself a cuckold, however because I am not subservient. Interracial porn has always been visually stimulating to me. I am not a jealous guy and would love to share my wife, but she is very against it and has took offense when I asked outright a few times.

My wife often made comments that she would never date a black guy etc, however a few months ago during sex, I whispered in her ear that I would like to see her take a Big Black Cock, and I told her to start thinking about it as we fucked, she became extremely wet and really got into the role play. I would mention it every so often after that, and when I did the sex would immediately become extremely intense.

About six weeks ago I ordered a 12 inch realisitic BBC dildo. She pretended to object at first, but once she got it in her she squirted repeatedly and now has no problem with it. We roleplay about her sleeping with Black men pretty much every time we fuck, and the BBC usually always makes an appearance, she even asks me to go get it. She loves it . She get's very dirty while having sex and using the BBC. She'll become very verbal and say "fuck me with you Big black cock, I love your black cock, I want your black cum etc". We also started watching Interracial porn which get's her very aroused. Sometimes I'll text her an interracial meme throughout the day just to remind her of what she is getting when she gets home, and she has responded that she wants "that Big black cock" etc.

The troubleing thing is that as soon as our very hot interracial roleplay sessions are over, she doesn't want to talk about it at all and still says she won't sleep with a black guy. I am not sure where to go from here. She has shown all the interests but persists that she won't do it. I even noticed she has been adding more black men onto facebook, and recently messaged back and forth with a black guy who sent her a cock pic. She said "your cock is huge", but that was it, when she knew that I knew she acted like it was just to make me jealous. Everytime we fuck she wants to roleplay about Black men, and even when we are out she will point out a black guy and whisper to me "Imagine me fucking him", but then get mad if I bring it up later. I am confused. What are the next steps? Anyone in a Similiar situation?

 

[whiteSAnerd]

I know how you feel. The situation I'm in is similar: She's into it but only goes so far. I'm not a relationship expert but the barrier is likely her fear to lose you so your main objective should be to generate trust and convincing her that this is also what you desire. I try to pair that with coming up with opportunities for her to expand her horizon and expose her to situations where she can translate her desire into real life action.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

@IronLion1986: Have you found out yet, what the problem is?

 

[IronLion1986]

@IronLion1986: Have you found out yet, what the problem is?

I think it will just take time to get there in RL

 

[Chungcheng21]

She has an ass.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

And why is your wife sometimes responding and other times not? Have a clue?

 

[derin jones]

I've always been a fan of interracial porn. I wouldn't consdier myself a cuckold, however because I am not subservient. Interracial porn has always been visually stimulating to me. I am not a jealous guy and would love to share my wife, but she is very against it and has took offense when I asked outright a few times.

My wife often made comments that she would never date a black guy etc, however a few months ago during sex, I whispered in her ear that I would like to see her take a Big Black Cock, and I told her to start thinking about it as we fucked, she became extremely wet and really got into the role play. I would mention it every so often after that, and when I did the sex would immediately become extremely intense.

About six weeks ago I ordered a 12 inch realisitic BBC dildo. She pretended to object at first, but once she got it in her she squirted repeatedly and now has no problem with it. We roleplay about her sleeping with Black men pretty much every time we fuck, and the BBC usually always makes an appearance, she even asks me to go get it. She loves it . She get's very dirty while having sex and using the BBC. She'll become very verbal and say "fuck me with you Big black cock, I love your black cock, I want your black cum etc". We also started watching Interracial porn which get's her very aroused. Sometimes I'll text her an interracial meme throughout the day just to remind her of what she is getting when she gets home, and she has responded that she wants "that Big black cock" etc.

The troubleing thing is that as soon as our very hot interracial roleplay sessions are over, she doesn't want to talk about it at all and still says she won't sleep with a black guy. I am not sure where to go from here. She has shown all the interests but persists that she won't do it. I even noticed she has been adding more black men onto facebook, and recently messaged back and forth with a black guy who sent her a cock pic. She said "your cock is huge", but that was it, when she knew that I knew she acted like it was just to make me jealous. Everytime we fuck she wants to roleplay about Black men, and even when we are out she will point out a black guy and whisper to me "Imagine me fucking him", but then get mad if I bring it up later. I am confused. What are the next steps? Anyone in a Similiar situation?

Hahaha, yeah. I'm in the same situation for the last six years or so, but you're farther ahead than me. Mine loves the idea, talks about outside the bedroom a bit, but is really too lame to every really do it. I've been pissed and frustrated for a few years, and just kind of accepted that it won't happen. It's mentally exhausting trying things, frustrating when it doesn't progress, and it's better for me to just forget it altogether.

Good luck to you, though.

 

[ok_couple49]

I've always been a fan of interracial porn. I wouldn't consdier myself a cuckold, however because I am not subservient. Interracial porn has always been visually stimulating to me. I am not a jealous guy and would love to share my wife, but she is very against it and has took offense when I asked outright a few times.

My wife often made comments that she would never date a black guy etc, however a few months ago during sex, I whispered in her ear that I would like to see her take a Big Black Cock, and I told her to start thinking about it as we fucked, she became extremely wet and really got into the role play. I would mention it every so often after that, and when I did the sex would immediately become extremely intense.

About six weeks ago I ordered a 12 inch realisitic BBC dildo. She pretended to object at first, but once she got it in her she squirted repeatedly and now has no problem with it. We roleplay about her sleeping with Black men pretty much every time we fuck, and the BBC usually always makes an appearance, she even asks me to go get it. She loves it . She get's very dirty while having sex and using the BBC. She'll become very verbal and say "fuck me with you Big black cock, I love your black cock, I want your black cum etc". We also started watching Interracial porn which get's her very aroused. Sometimes I'll text her an interracial meme throughout the day just to remind her of what she is getting when she gets home, and she has responded that she wants "that Big black cock" etc.

The troubleing thing is that as soon as our very hot interracial roleplay sessions are over, she doesn't want to talk about it at all and still says she won't sleep with a black guy. I am not sure where to go from here. She has shown all the interests but persists that she won't do it. I even noticed she has been adding more black men onto facebook, and recently messaged back and forth with a black guy who sent her a cock pic. She said "your cock is huge", but that was it, when she knew that I knew she acted like it was just to make me jealous. Everytime we fuck she wants to roleplay about Black men, and even when we are out she will point out a black guy and whisper to me "Imagine me fucking him", but then get mad if I bring it up later. I am confused. What are the next steps? Anyone in a Similiar situation?

Keep up the play... but don't push her.. let her set the pace.. I would say she will eventually go for it as soon as she is 100% sure you won't leave her.. MOST women are VERY concerned it will ruin their marriage.. It WILL CHANGE your marriage.. and she wants to know it won't change for the worst. It is very probable that if she likes her first BBC it's going to be an ongoing thing, so be ready for that..

 

[ok_couple49]

For the first time ever she told me to just watch her Fuck the BBC(dildi) while she watched interracial porn. She talked really dirty and squirted repeatedly riding the BBC. Asking me how hot she looked Fucking the big black cock etc. How she is his slut and that I can only watch today. I was looking for a hotwife situation today I felt like she was trying to make it into a cuckold situation. It was really hot having her take control of the scenarios though. Pretty bitter sweet.

That MAY be the way she wants it..

 

[curious1142]

For the first time ever she told me to just watch her Fuck the BBC(dildi) while she watched interracial porn. She talked really dirty and squirted repeatedly riding the BBC. Asking me how hot she looked Fucking the big black cock etc. How she is his slut and that I can only watch today. I was looking for a hotwife situation today I felt like she was trying to make it into a cuckold situation. It was really hot having her take control of the scenarios though. Pretty bitter sweet.

Tell her how sexy the color contrast is. And tell her to imagine a real cock that's as big as the dildo, except with a real body behind it, with powerful hips tapping that married white pussy.

 

[OwnedWife4good]

Give it time, even back off completely. Find a Stallion club in your area. Most Town's have them, plenty if we'll dressed black man there. They will give her a special kind of attention. Most of all assure her it's about her sexual pleasure. That you are not interested in playing around yourself. Use some different interracial stimulation also when you send pics. Something more appealing to women. I'll post some examples. And remember if she does open her legs for a black lover, your life will be changed permanently. Be sure you can handle the consequences as she may never really feel pleasure from you again. That's a big deal with some hun.

 

[W4bbc]

That her to a bar and get her *******. If you can get her to take her panty off. See if she danc with a black

 

[terrij]

I've always been a fan of interracial porn. I wouldn't consdier myself a cuckold, however because I am not subservient. Interracial porn has always been visually stimulating to me. I am not a jealous guy and would love to share my wife, but she is very against it and has took offense when I asked outright a few times.

My wife often made comments that she would never date a black guy etc, however a few months ago during sex, I whispered in her ear that I would like to see her take a Big Black Cock, and I told her to start thinking about it as we fucked, she became extremely wet and really got into the role play. I would mention it every so often after that, and when I did the sex would immediately become extremely intense.

About six weeks ago I ordered a 12 inch realisitic BBC dildo. She pretended to object at first, but once she got it in her she squirted repeatedly and now has no problem with it. We roleplay about her sleeping with Black men pretty much every time we fuck, and the BBC usually always makes an appearance, she even asks me to go get it. She loves it . She get's very dirty while having sex and using the BBC. She'll become very verbal and say "fuck me with you Big black cock, I love your black cock, I want your black cum etc". We also started watching Interracial porn which get's her very aroused. Sometimes I'll text her an interracial meme throughout the day just to remind her of what she is getting when she gets home, and she has responded that she wants "that Big black cock" etc.

The troubleing thing is that as soon as our very hot interracial roleplay sessions are over, she doesn't want to talk about it at all and still says she won't sleep with a black guy. I am not sure where to go from here. She has shown all the interests but persists that she won't do it. I even noticed she has been adding more black men onto facebook, and recently messaged back and forth with a black guy who sent her a cock pic. She said "your cock is huge", but that was it, when she knew that I knew she acted like it was just to make me jealous. Everytime we fuck she wants to roleplay about Black men, and even when we are out she will point out a black guy and whisper to me "Imagine me fucking him", but then get mad if I bring it up later. I am confused. What are the next steps? Anyone in a Similiar situation?

I can relate to this alot