Looking for the same thingHonestly! Why would it be humiliating? When we decided to explore this lifestyle both my wife and I wanted something different. We wanted a bull that would teach us different things and we were looking for a dominant black man to push our relationship to something unknown. We wanted a black man to be a and tell us “I’m here and I’m y’all bull”. We wanted a black man to really introduce us to this lifestyle in a way that was worth the effort and time. Believe us, so far they haven’t disappointed.