For me I've converted about four women so far
First one was just a friend of mine who was a bit more experimental. She didn't have a real preference but she also never dated a black guy before either. So I set her up with my bf's (at the time) friend. She dates black men more often I think, but I don't think I've ever seen her express a true preference.
Fast forward a bit. Second girl was a co-worker of mine. It's actually about 7 years ago now actually (time flies). We actually became close friends throughout the time we worked there and we did share much of our lives. The topic of dating and sex obviously came up
We were both single at the time and we'd share how we staved off the "loneliness". It was sex toys and porn for me lol and I actually introduced her to much of the porn I watched. Most of my sex toys were black too and she did eventually started only watching interracial stuff. She eventually transferred but I do see her on social media dating black men sometimes. We aren't in contact as much any more but I did remember talking to her a couple years back and she did date a few black men. She totally said "Wow! you're right about these black guys!" lol.
The third person I got into this "lifestyle" I met online on social media. She was some ignorant twerp who kept posting ignorant junk on a people's page. It wasn't actually racist or like derogatory, but moreso just stupid. Stuff like: "do black people have real hair?" or "Dark skin look a bit weird". I found out she actually lived about an hour from me. I was very into BLM at the time so I decided to make her my "project" since she really did seem more ignorant than actual racist. So I did message her to talk and shared facts and statistics with her how black people are oppressed and how her comment can get her into trouble. She was kind of one of those preppy types but wasn't part of the "queen bee" group if that makes sense. But she gave off tons of "wanna be queen" impressions. She does watch movies so I brought up movies with black men in it, I'd bring up black male models, black music etc. I did eventually bring up the sexual stereotypes of black men too and it was pretty easy to convince her of that surprisingly. We did meet a few times and introduced her to a few black friends. She eventually dated one of their brothers or something. So that's one less racist in the world!
The fourth one was pretty similar actually. "Ignorant" girl actually has an ignorant friend too. Birds of a feather flock together
. When we were all together, we would both talk about black men in her presence. I did it obviously to get a reaction. After a few months of this she eventually asked "in a joking way" (that's how she played it off lol) what was so great and special about them. Well let's just say I used the same "formula" as I did on her friend. She did eventually hook up with one several months later but that was mostly because of some peer pressure since the only guys we talked about were black and when she wanted to talk about some white celebrity we just sort of changed the conversation back.