I had a white couple do that exact same thing to me! They told me it was only a meet and greet, then after about :20 minutes of small they suggested that I accompany them to their bedroom! #Mindblowing!!!!
Do you fuck on the first meet?
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Well this weekend was chat a bit and then get down to business. But we did chat/video quite a bit throughout the week.
So this “bait and switch” technique per se is common?
So you were good with this?
I guess you could say that. I’ve learned as a single black guy in the lifestyle that it pays off ( tremendously) to be non-pushy. The fact that a couple is willing to meet & greet indicates that they’re considering me as their bull. So essentially when a couple says to me “this is just a meet & greet ” I figure I have a fairly good chance in joining them later.
And @FunTexasCouple that was meant with all due respect, your Mrs. is firme!
I will message with you and see a clothed and face photo of you before it gets past the 2nd message.
9/10 Xs Im way to busy to meet and sit for drinks to try and figure out if we click. When I meet you it's to rock my world and move on.
9/10 Xs Im way to busy to meet and sit for drinks to try and figure out if we click. When I meet you it's to rock my world and move on.
Yes- usually I fuck the first time...... however, I’m getting really good at live verifying on kik! Making sure the guy has all his teeth and trims his finger nails!!!! Although after 2 bad meet ups where I had to ditch out I do prefer to meet at a bar for drinks first.
Direct! Has anyone talked themselves right outta the pussy?
Do you find that gentlemen misrepresent themselves?
All the time. I rarely end up meeting anyone new. 9/10 they are not who or what they say they are or look like.
This site is the worst for meeting anyone IMO. Way to many fake unverified members.
Personally I enjoy the variety of it all. Some want to play the first night, some prefer to draw it out a bit. I'm a go with the flow type of guy. My main thing is..I'm never pressed. I never want her to feel even the slightest bit of pressure from me. I do understand that for some couples, free time is very hard to come by so spreading things out over a few meets is not really feasible for them as they like to make the most of their free time. Just because a couple fucks on the first date doesn't mean that she is going to fuck you on the first date lol That also works the other way....just because a couple says that they don't play on the first date doesn't mean that it can't happen. I enjoy knowing that the night can play out in a few different ways. Just the way I'm built.
I have played on the first date but I usually meet in a public place and see where it goes
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