I say this as a black man: I hope the fuck not.
That would be pathetic.
I know where I am and I'm aware I signed-up to this mess, so I'm willing to take a hit to give one.
I'm in the UK, so (think I) know what the underlying thing is you're alluding to.
Edit: I know the main schism is the supposed black/white dynamic, but you're letting us dudes off the hook. If you expand it to 'non-black' women it's more comprehensive. The Eugenics Crew (i.e we black dudes) are very slippery; if the woman is what you Americans call biracial, or light-skinned, or just an indian, etc we'll use that loophole to proclaim black bonafides or race pride.
I know clowns that proclaim a curly haired Portuguese woman is a woman of color...so...y'know.