Verifying is the only way. It cost nothing and it tells us you're not some white guy with a woman jerking off.When are you going to pay to be here like all the cool people? If they required it you would disappear because your allowance is too small.
Only black men and couples can verify.
ANYONE can pay for a Gold Member title. So what? Actually some of us didn't have to pay for it.
Anyway, verification is the only way.