I know my husband couldn't, but I'm a person who believes if it's good for you, it is for me to. Fck I'm bored af to.
Could you really handle your wife with another man?
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He would probably enjoy it like the rest of us. Just can't admit it.
There’s a disconnect pushed by what many people who are just fetishists and like middle age sissification BNWO dudes with no actual wife or girlfriend who lurk this site push out in posts.
They like being cheated on.
So far this is a fantasy my girlfriend and I explored consentually and she never would of pursued on her own cheating.
We do it now and she likes and prefers it. She would stop if I asked her to and I know that 100% if we needed to sort something out. We don’t do the emotional cheating it’s about the pipe and having fun and she gets 50% off pleasing me and talking about it with me after. She obviously really enjoys the dates but we have a stable relationship. We don’t do sleepovers or emotional attachment.
If she cheated I’m not that pressed or that pathetic. I’m out. This is something we do together. I am not interested in cheating in either form of (1) she doesn’t tell me or (2) she gets emotionally attached. For all of those who think husband loses complete control we literally has a date this week she plans to fuck and tell “her husband had said no but she wanted it too bad anyways give it to me” for the purpose of we thought he will fuck her harder that way. Some relationships are a lot more stable than portrayed here.
Real people into the lifestyle know this. Not all real people would agree but a decent amount of all 3 parties involved in this relationship will relate and like this post including hot wives and bulls.
My two cents.
They like being cheated on.
So far this is a fantasy my girlfriend and I explored consentually and she never would of pursued on her own cheating.
We do it now and she likes and prefers it. She would stop if I asked her to and I know that 100% if we needed to sort something out. We don’t do the emotional cheating it’s about the pipe and having fun and she gets 50% off pleasing me and talking about it with me after. She obviously really enjoys the dates but we have a stable relationship. We don’t do sleepovers or emotional attachment.
If she cheated I’m not that pressed or that pathetic. I’m out. This is something we do together. I am not interested in cheating in either form of (1) she doesn’t tell me or (2) she gets emotionally attached. For all of those who think husband loses complete control we literally has a date this week she plans to fuck and tell “her husband had said no but she wanted it too bad anyways give it to me” for the purpose of we thought he will fuck her harder that way. Some relationships are a lot more stable than portrayed here.
Real people into the lifestyle know this. Not all real people would agree but a decent amount of all 3 parties involved in this relationship will relate and like this post including hot wives and bulls.
My two cents.
My wife has been fucked bareback by about 70 men, 66 during our marriage and 6 of them were black men. Also my wife loves 2 guys at the same time and also several men at the same time at sex parties.
Yes no problem watching my wife with BBC or bwc. I totally encourage her to become her bulls slut.. last month at splash mocha she had her first small Gb 3 BBC taking turns for hour. Hope it happens again in 2 weeks
macoupleinpvd
Couple
Amazing!
jared7577768
Male
I really believe I would. My wife is very vanilla, embarrassed about sex and her own sexuality, and as a result has barely evolved as a sexual being in the 30+ years we’ve been together. I have been unable to help her with this, not for lack of trying. There have been rare glimpses into the kind of ******* she’s been repressing deep down inside her super curvy bbw body…enough for me to realize how much more happy and fulfilled she would be if this area of her life could be unlocked and released. To see her openly enjoying the attention of a confident, fit, well endowed man/men who have the skill to help her past her inhibitions and give her the confidence to perceive and validate herself as a sexual being…not only would that be the most sexually gratifying thing for me, but I would be so happy for her and my heart would be so filled!
Yes.
marcus3219
Male
I've dealt with it before so I know I can handle it in at least a few different contexts. I would deal with it. The first time one of my ex's cheated on me with a black man I was very upset. She liked it that he was popular and that he had a big dick. I got over it even when she continued to date him. At the time I didn't know that being a cuck was actually a thing. That was many years ago and more accepting of that part of my personality now. I'm not yet an overzealous cuck although i do sometimes get very excited thinking about this lifestyle. When a black bull takes your gf or wife, he's doing a few things. He's taking your gf , maybe without your consent which is a whole plate of emotions by itself. He's giving her something that she really enjoys. He's making you re-define your relationship with your girl. All of this could be hard to take or a deal breaker unless you flip it upside down and decide to enjoy it instead of fighting against it. If you turn on your porn-brain, then you think about a big black cock getting sucked and fucking ... your gf or wife. That can be intoxicating by itself.
Now , if you are a person who is really invested in the socialness of your large or small family, accepting this kind of lifestyle comes with it's complications. What do you do when the family knows? How do you respond if your work finds out? All of which could make life very uncomfortable. Which is one of the reasons I've always kept my sexual affairs to myself. I don't exactly go to work telling others how much I like IR porn. I don't tell people I might have actually sat through a cuckold cream-pie eating video (just kidding... maybe).
So, I guess when you ask if I could really handle it, it's a definite maybe because of context. Is it in the idea circumstances? Would I be really upset if I was at a party and went looking for my gf and she's in the back on her knees blowing some black guy I never met? Not sure. The online IR video lover in me says YES! But after the initial black cock sucking at a party, can everyone work it and make it work into a lifestyle?
*shrugs* It's a very good question. Stay tuned.
This is my biggest fear, but it also excites me to no end. Having a man trying to win her heart and take her pussy from you is intoxicating.
Only six? How did that happen? Lol
It was the early 90’s, the web wasn’t a thing yet. She had talked about doing it for a few years, more her idea than mine, a random situation allowed it to happen the first time, we had maybe 2 dozen MMF hookups over the next 3 years, only 4 of them were with him and they were of convenience. The others were random hookups, either at a swingers hotel or club, or twice at a bar.
Yes only 6 mainly because my wife did not want to be fucked by black men until she was around 60.
That’s great!
Thanks for the nice comment.
bbclovinwife
Couple
I truly appreciate and embrace it as I’ve encouraged it
Not only can I handle it, I can’t handle life without it
AntalZs2
Male
ive had the fantasy for a long time honestly and still haven’t had the chance to live it out. Ever since the first chick I had sex with who was my first serious and long term girlfriend (2 and half years at age 16) did something I at first almost lost it first reaction but then straight up out of nowhere got hard and turned on by what happened. So we were swimming in her pool with her one girlfriend and four of my friends who were horny fucks to begin with and all single fucking anyone they can, having some beers smoking a few joints when to a song my girl was really feeling right then gets out of the pool and starts twerking shaking her ass wearing these new thin as fuck swimsuit basically her whole ass shaking for my friends and her friend when my buddy goes up to her wasted as fuck puts his face up to her ass and grabs her ass shakes it she’s just twerking loving the attention wasted as fuck, then twerked on him totally naked probably all wet with him totally hard through his swimming shorts and she says wow you’re enjoying this I see, and after shaking her ass on his dick they were smoking a joint together and he takes his dick out and she didn’t realize at first that he was rubbing his dick on her ass and between her legs when she put her hands down there and turned around and squeezed his dick hard as fuck he was in a lot of pain and she picked up her top and bottom off the ground and before she let his dick go she said sorry I hurt it and gave his dick on his head a few kisses doing a sad puppy face but the kisses were more like nibbling his head making the cpppp sound takes his dick and just once puts the whole thing deep throating it for like five seconds looks up at him and smiles and nothing else happened after that we just drank and ******* but after that I figured out that I like the idea of my girl with another guy so for 17 years now I’ve insanely wanted to watch my girl get fucked by another guy holding her hand being there the whole time watching her enjoy it but then I think fantasizing about something imagining it and actually doing it in person real life experiencing all of that is totally different and just always been too chicken to actually get to it. It can either make or break a relationship to be honest I would think. If it works and a couple can communicate and trust each other enjoying the lifestyle together it can totally spice up the relationship but if one of the two gets hurt regrets doing it that can fuck the relationship right up. That’s my thought so I think if I myself or anyone thinking of doing it the first time around, it’s probably smarter to take it step by step maybe first going out for drinks with another guy as a friend of ours and have some drinks and hang out in private with some drinks or smoke or beers but not too much and flirt a bit see how both of you feel about it as you take it step by step so you’re more comfortable getting into it all. See if he catches the bait and realizes you as the man either enjoys her flirting or doing ******* with someone else or doesn’t mind and gets touchy and stuff and if him rubbing her pussy or kissing her neck or even kissing her lips or licking her pussy doesn’t make you feel totally jealous or feel like you are regretting it then go from there and maybe even get to watch her fuck him.
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