The first time a girl wanted to kiss me after she swallowed my load I thought I was going to puke. It wasn't a snowball or anything, she'd swallowed all of it. It was maybe two minutes later but still. Yes I could taste it and I didn't like it.
Once I realized how girls loved it I was OK with it.
Exact same story when I girl wanted me to go down on her after we fucked. I'd always wipe her off then start. Always got her off pretty quick.
I've never "cleaned" my wife or any woman but I've licked a pussy many times but only after it's been wiped off.
Years ago I was seeing/fucking a very good looking, engaged, primm and proper church girl form a very upstanding church family. I was 22, she was 20. She was on the pill so she could have sex with her fiancee, obviously her parents didn't know. The planned wedding was over a year away. She loved her fiancee but liked sex with me too. She'd stop by my place after church, after work and most anytime she could get away. She lived at home. She LOVED me going down after we fucked. She knew the routine, we'd fuck for a while, many positions till I'd cum, she'd grab the towel, wipe off then I'd lick her. She'd cum hard. Then we'd start 2nd round. She said her guy wouldn't do it for her. She seemed to like sex with me as we got together many times. I had no problem doing it with her, we'd fuck, I'd cum, I'd lick her, she'd cum, we'd make out till I was hard again then repeat. She was the first girl I'd ever had hot sex with more than twice during a visit. And she was the first girl that rubbed her clit between rounds while we kissed.