You are 100% correct. And I'm saying lets change things. And you are saying you don't. I'm fine with that, lets see if I can convince a good chunk of people, most importantly the moderators, that the evaluation of dicks based on color is silly, outdated, and little unpragmatic.
It sounds like you are saying things should stay the same, but that to me seems more like a position and not an argument that supports a position.
If I may, your position seems to be, I like things the way they are so lets keep things the way they are.
My position is "I don't like things the way they are and the policy seems unnecessarily exclusive and unworkable".
And if it means in the end I find another place to share my kink and stories and fun so be it. Your loss, I'm an interesting guy
(IMHO)
I'm not saying you have to like me, read my stuff or follow me. I'm just saying let me verify and dont' take down posts just because of a BWC.
I may have oversimplified the position of people who want to keep the status quo. Maybe the belief is something about how a line has to be drawn between black and white and the moderators will make that decision on who is black enough. And so be it, it's a private site. I think my stance is. Yes you are right. And I disagree I think we shouldn't make race a qualifier for being verified and posting. And I dont' think my position is too crazy.