GeraldG
Couple
I'm not sure if this is the proper group to post this, but I have tried other websites such as relationship sites and couples therapy sites, and the only advice I can get is either to divorce her or go get couples therapy with her.
Well, I love her and don't want to divorce her. She refuses to go to any kind of therapy, saying there is nothing to get therapy about. So, here is my problem:
My wife is 21, and we have been married for about a year and a half. She is VERY pretty, and she is petite but has a cup size of DD. That gets her a LOT of attention from guys. My cock is close to average in size, about 5 or 5 1/2 inches or so, but it is thin. I learned that the only way I can really satisfy her sexually is to do oral first, and I have gotten really good at it.
My wife, Patty, has always been way over sexed. She can go a day without getting pretty horny, and if she goes three days or so without sex, she starts climbing the walls she needs it so bad.
Well, she hasn't let me have sex with her for the last few months, and yet she isn't climbing the walls.
She works in an office inside a warehouse distribution center. There is only one other female that works there. I'm guessing that at least 80% of the guys that work there are black. Patty has a life long friend, Gloria, who is married to a white guy, but openly dates black guys, and even has a black baby. Her husband babysits when she goes out on her dates. I think Gloria is exerting a lot of influence on my wife.
A few months ago, Patty started dressing really slutty when she goes to work. I mean like really low cut tops, mini skirts so short they barely cover her butt, and she shows me that she usually doesn't wear any panties. I have tried talking to her about how inappropriate it is to wear things like that to work, but she just tells me her boss likes it, then smiles.
As if that isn't enough, she has been going out in the evenings with Gloria. When she does that, she wears skirts that are even shorter, like they show the bottom inch or two or her butt. Then, before stepping out the door, she shows me she is not wearing any panties.
When Patty comes home, no matter what the time is, or if I am sleeping or awake, she sits on my face and makes me give her oral sex. Somehow, she tastes different now. While I give her oral sex, she gives me a hand job. I only last 30 seconds or a minute or so before cumming, so after, she makes me lick my own cum off her hand, then makes me sleep in the wet spot if any gets on the sheets.
I don't know how to handle this or what to do. I am posting this in a few different groups and places in the hopes I get some decent advice other than divorce or therapy.
Thanks for listening.
Gerald
Update: I posted the above a day or so ago on another site and got some advice, but I am wondering what all of you think. Advice is badly needed.
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Well, I love her and don't want to divorce her. She refuses to go to any kind of therapy, saying there is nothing to get therapy about. So, here is my problem:
My wife is 21, and we have been married for about a year and a half. She is VERY pretty, and she is petite but has a cup size of DD. That gets her a LOT of attention from guys. My cock is close to average in size, about 5 or 5 1/2 inches or so, but it is thin. I learned that the only way I can really satisfy her sexually is to do oral first, and I have gotten really good at it.
My wife, Patty, has always been way over sexed. She can go a day without getting pretty horny, and if she goes three days or so without sex, she starts climbing the walls she needs it so bad.
Well, she hasn't let me have sex with her for the last few months, and yet she isn't climbing the walls.
She works in an office inside a warehouse distribution center. There is only one other female that works there. I'm guessing that at least 80% of the guys that work there are black. Patty has a life long friend, Gloria, who is married to a white guy, but openly dates black guys, and even has a black baby. Her husband babysits when she goes out on her dates. I think Gloria is exerting a lot of influence on my wife.
A few months ago, Patty started dressing really slutty when she goes to work. I mean like really low cut tops, mini skirts so short they barely cover her butt, and she shows me that she usually doesn't wear any panties. I have tried talking to her about how inappropriate it is to wear things like that to work, but she just tells me her boss likes it, then smiles.
As if that isn't enough, she has been going out in the evenings with Gloria. When she does that, she wears skirts that are even shorter, like they show the bottom inch or two or her butt. Then, before stepping out the door, she shows me she is not wearing any panties.
When Patty comes home, no matter what the time is, or if I am sleeping or awake, she sits on my face and makes me give her oral sex. Somehow, she tastes different now. While I give her oral sex, she gives me a hand job. I only last 30 seconds or a minute or so before cumming, so after, she makes me lick my own cum off her hand, then makes me sleep in the wet spot if any gets on the sheets.
I don't know how to handle this or what to do. I am posting this in a few different groups and places in the hopes I get some decent advice other than divorce or therapy.
Thanks for listening.
Gerald
Update: I posted the above a day or so ago on another site and got some advice, but I am wondering what all of you think. Advice is badly needed.
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