Which do you prefer, one nighter's or deep friendships?

[CJ BlkDom]

I don’t know about you, but bbc get tired of the same pussy

That depends on the wife. If she's boring or not If I had the same white pussy 4 the long run, I'd surely have her doing all kinds of ******* to make it worth while and we both have fun!

 

[Sharon and Dav]

We totally agree. We prefer a deep close friendship and if possible regularly meets every few weeks.

We also

 

[purplehazecpl]

Most of my relationships start as a one night of fun and if its really good then it turns to a LTR

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

That depends on the wife. If she's boring or not If I had the same white pussy 4 the long run, I'd surely have her doing all kinds of ******* to make it worth while and we both have fun!

i always feel like both Women and Black men shall not be limited when it comes to creating sexual experiences of their will, needs(?) and choice!
So some prefer long-term relationships while others prefer short-lived ones or ONSs. Yet others like to create monogamous relationships based on far more than sex alone, sometimes with the goal of a marriage. ImO all of that is fine. Whatever they wish, it really is up to them! In the end, like always, it is about finding a match which implies reciprocity - two (or more) people wishing for and agreeing on the same scenario.
But ImO the most fundamental principle is to not limit Women nor Black men. - Just the way i see it.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

We totally agree. We prefer a deep close friendship and if possible regularly meets every few weeks.

We also

Do you prefer or expect the "regular" third in this scenario to be sexually "monogamous" with the wife/GF? TY

 

[SonTo]

I prefer friendships. You grow together and the sex gets much better over time.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

I prefer friendships. You grow together and the sex gets much better over time.

Does that include emotional attachment beyond the sex?

 

[SonTo]

Does that include emotional attachment beyond the sex?

Nope, just friendship and good sex.

 

[connnie169]

I really enjoy long-term a lot. But there is something very special about a one night stand being with somebody new exploring their bodies and having them explore your body for the first time.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

I really enjoy long-term a lot. But there is something very special about a one night stand being with somebody new exploring their bodies and having them explore your body for the first time.

Exactly how i see it. Especially in a wifesharing scenario it means the Woman does not have to trade one flavor for the other!
It provides a Woman with the best she can have from three worlds: The passionate, bonding sex she can only have with the one she loves, the steamy, passionate sex she can only have with a regular lover she built that special lustful connection with, and the new/different, unbridled sex she can only have with a stranger. How does that sound?

 

[WhtCpl4BlkMen]

Definitely long term. It is too much effort to find the right guy over and over.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

I don’t know about you, but bbc get tired of the same pussy

Not true. Inventiveness and enthusiasm from BOTH/ALL parties are necessary. Or if you prefer, don't keep doing the same old ******* the same old way.

 

[maw0998]

Deep friendship! Totally has to be. I’m offering my married body to another man it has to be more than a one night thing

 

[SCBlknNsty]

Do you prefer or expect the "regular" third in this scenario to be sexually "monogamous" with the wife/GF? TY

Should the same apply in the other direction? In trying to 'assess' without being 'judgmental' there is a point I see someone involved with too many people for me to be comfortable.

 

[SharonSM]

Should the same apply in the other direction? In trying to 'assess' without being 'judgmental' there is a point I see someone involved with too many people for me to be comfortable.

Very good point!