Which do you prefer, one nighter's or deep friendships?

[Bigdaddylimts]

Serious question....Do most women/couples prefer quick, one or two time relationships, or do you prefer a relationship that may take time to cultivate, but lasts for months or years? No right or wrong answers, but since I lean heavily towards growing a relationship, just want to see if I'm out of the mainstream.

I'm for 1 night stands or more if no strings I'll tap it more then once then them back to whity lol

 

[sailorwife]

With the right guy, definitely a deep friendship, where everybody knows his place

 

[BlackTherapist]

With what i do I prefer long term friendships. I get so many one time people on my table that i never see again or might see them twice. I'd much rather to be able to talk and catch up whenever I'm in town.

 

[BBCforEVER]

I prefer long term friendships.

 

[europa9922]

the latter

 

[Whynot1731]

Generally one nighters

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Generally one nighters

Do you get to really know the person, or is that secondary?

 

[Whynot1731]

Secondary, we really don’t want any emotions to come into play. Aside from lust during our play time.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Secondary, we really don’t want any emotions to come into play. Aside from lust during our play time.

I used to do it frequently, but these days I feel like it's only a matter of time before you catch something. If you've avoided that, I'm happy for you and you must know what you're doing.

 

[sfond4fun]

Stable friendship. First for the bonding and complicity, and also for safety.

 

[Bigfunfun]

Serious question....Do most women/couples prefer quick, one or two time relationships, or do you prefer a relationship that may take time to cultivate, but lasts for months or years? No right or wrong answers, but since I lean heavily towards growing a relationship, just want to see if I'm out of the mainstream.

I like to get to know the guy, but both can be hot.

 

[Bigfunfun]

I like to get to know the guy, but both can be hot.

Had my first GB in San Diego

 

[bobter65]

both have had good and bad points in our journey, the lust and dirtyness of a one off can be arousing and hot as fuck, expecially if unplanned but sometimes you just dont click sexually and have also experienced the joys of pushing sexual boundaries with a long term bbc (had a regular for several years even going abroad on holiday with us) we all got to know each other really well and that helped with experimenting.

Yes we had amazing holiday taking him with us also let him take total control for 10 days amazing experience. Would do in definitely

 

[bobter65]

I've had 'em both, too. I think it's actually harder to find the one nighter's who are on the same wavelength (likes, dislikes, etc.) than having a once every (fill in the blank) relationship where both or all three of you know what to expect. You do you....it seems to be working for you!

Better as you trust each other in longer a frequent encounters

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Had my first GB in San Diego

If you ever make it back this way, let me know!

 

[Bigfunfun]

If you ever make it back this way, let me know!

I just might, love it there and you might make it more fun

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Better as you trust each other in longer a frequent encounters

Agree....and the trust makes it easier to try new things and be open and honest about what you like and don't like.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I just might, love it there and you might make it more fun

No "might" about it!

 

[Bigfunfun]

No "might" about it!

Like confidence in a guy

 

[bobter65]

No "might" about it!

I agree no might about it wonderful experience for all