What Compelled You into Becoming a Cuck?

[Dsoul]

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A question to the husbands here: For most of you, the idea of seeing your wife in the arms of another man (preferably a Black man) has been reigning on your mind for as long as you can remember. Do you recall what it was that eventually compelled you towards giving it a shot for real? What was it that made you decide to finally make this a reality for yourself and your wife . . . or if you're still thinking of means of making it a reality for her?

 

[mw29]

In the process myself of trying to turn this in reality which is much harder then i thought without saying it outloud to her

 

[INBADNEEDOFBBC]

Taking my wife on a trip ti Jamaica and seeing her reaction to the first black man we saw that was hung down to his knee.

 

[cuck4Beth]

I think it was part of my genetic make up. Even in my early teens my main fantasy was me sexually servicing a couple. So, I married a woman (she was 18, me 20) who was promiscuous. We met at a college party and I was the 4th guy with her; it turned her on that I french-kissed her knowing she had sucked cock and that I licked her pussy knowing other guys had fucked her.

 

[NEhotwifenhub]

It was a gradual progression for us. The first time my hotwife was with a bbc, I realized two things; 1. it would not be the last time & 2. there is not way I can please her like. That was in 2011 & she has been enjoying the pleasures of black men ever since.

 

[sissyricky62]

I was already a faggot for BBC. My wife had basically quit having sex with me. It was a combination of my tiny cock size and the fact that she had never gotten much pleasure out of sex with me to begin with. I was too passive with her and this led to further problems. I think she knew I was mostly homosexual, but wouldn’t admit it. She steadfastly refused to see another man ( I now know because she believed that all sex would be the same disappointment) until I got her ******* in a club one night and basically set her up to be fucked. She hasn’t quit since.

 

[MarkandMary]

We are not a hard core cuck couple. We enjoy aspects of Cuckolding and hotwifeing. For us the Cuckolding part started with her first night with her first black lover. He rocked her world (I quote "best sex I have ever had") and she was very up front about that. As time went on with her first blk boyfriend and other blk guys Cuckolding/hotwifeing became the norm in our bedroom. It works for us.

 

[cuck4Beth]

We are not a hard core cuck couple. We enjoy aspects of Cuckolding and hotwifeing. For us the Cuckolding part started with her first night with her first black lover. He rocked her world (I quote "best sex I have ever had") and she was very up front about that. As time went on with her first blk boyfriend and other blk guys Cuckolding/hotwifeing became the norm in our bedroom. It works for us.

That is the key "It works for us." My wife says it is the perfect marriage, best of both worlds, loyal loving husband and black studs who 'rock' her world.

 

[MarkandMary]

That is the key "It works for us." My wife says it is the perfect marriage, best of both worlds, loyal loving husband and black studs who 'rock' her world.

Yes!!!

 

[Cuckloversissy]

Watching cuck porn in high school and eventually being extremely impressed by black men in the videos. A girlfriend in college didn't cuckold me but encouraged me to embrace it and would enjoy humiliating me. Doesn't help that I have a small penis and am attracted to strong, dominant women.

 

[Bellaazz]

I remember even as a teen being extremely turn on by stories or movies of unfaithfulness. I was also humiliated by a neighborhood girl and it was a huge turn on. I used to think of it all the time when I masturbated. I didn't even know what a cuckold was. Was shocked to find out there were many others like me. SO for me it is just a natural thing

 

[geoffrya]

I have voted in most suitable choice available (inevitable)
I caught my wife cheating with two lads fucking in a car
I would have never dreamt in my wildest dreams that I would be like this now
I was jealous and possessive and shocked to find this
I fully intended to throw her out, but when we finished shouting and rowing I was so aroused and end up fucking her all night
I suppose it was inevitable even though at time I fully intended to chuck her out, the next day
only to find that I wanted to see more and got her to arrange to do it again that very next night which she did so I guess looking back it was inevitable

 

[Maleslave]

It growed very slowly. First I fantasize about her having sex with other woman. After that became reality and she made me a cuck that way and admit her bisexuality, wich I already suspected, whe started a Femdom relation. Step by step cuckolding was discussed openly within our relationship. But when whe were a young couple it already excited me when other boys try to flirt with, her maybe because I knew she felt for me and dident want anyone else at that moment. When she cuck me in the future it wont be because whe don't love each other anymore, on the contrary. It will be because I love her so much I know she need another man in her bed at this moment who can give her physical and sexualy what she need. She know and realizes it's up on her now.

 

[alljackdup]

its always been there. just takes years to shed responsibilities, gain stability and get ******* the hell out of the house!

 

[jane mintu]

its always been there. just takes years to shed responsibilities, gain stability and get ******* the hell out of the house!

))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

 

[Mywifelovesthis]

I always enjoyed watching my girlfriends dance with others. Not thinking about watching them have sex at that point of my life.
When I met my wife and got engaged. We moved from me watching her dance with other men to swapping with other couples. At that point I always loved watching her face. Making eye contact and seeing her get pleasured. As time went on we got married and continued with other couples. Till we met a couple with the husband who became our first bull. I was fine with that turn in our marriage. Just love watching.

 

[Dsoul]

It was a gradual progression for us. The first time my hotwife was with a bbc, I realized two things; 1. it would not be the last time & 2. there is not way I can please her like. That was in 2011 & she has been enjoying the pleasures of black men ever since.

Did it have any profound changes in your marriage has never been the same since?

 

[Dsoul]

Whenever you stroll by and you are chanced to see an interracial couple on the street, do you vividly imagine them in bed together and try to imagine the woman was actually your wife/*******?

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[NEhotwifenhub]

Did it have any profound changes in your marriage has never been the same since?

It has been so much better!!

 

[sissyricky62]

I remember even as a teen being extremely turn on by stories or movies of unfaithfulness. I was also humiliated by a neighborhood girl and it was a huge turn on. I used to think of it all the time when I masturbated. I didn't even know what a cuckold was. Was shocked to find out there were many others like me. SO for me it is just a natural thing

Being humiliated early in your development or during puberty is definitely a common theme. I know my experience is much like yours, but with a slight twist as I was repeatedly humiliated by an older female family member, an aunt. I wonder how many pubescent males are actually “influenced” in their sexual choices and mates because of this. I wonder how many of us “cuckolds” were exposed to sexual harassment/humiliation as teens? I bet the number would be quite high actually if we were all honest about the question. I’m not talking about the occasional snide comments made by young females, although I suppose if you were exposed to one growing up that constantly harassed you, that could do it, but I’m talking about long term humiliation or borderline sexual harassment from an older female relative or “family friend”? Not overt trauma like an actual ****** sexual act so much as just general harassment.