The Future of Cuckoldry and Hotwifing . . . .

Polyamory seems to be growing in popularity.
And "ethical non-monogamy", as people are phrasing it, is too. Although that's just 'swinging' for older people.
However, cuckolding, where the wife is unfaithful, but the husband is faithful,will have a stigma attached to it for mainstream people for decades. Perhaps forever.
 
Wrong. This site is full of the reality of what cuckolding is. You may wish it to be something else, but that's not going to change reality.

False.
Cuckolding: To make a cuckold of.
Cuckold: A man whose spouse or romantic partner is unfaithful.
Source: American Heritage Dictionary.

Anything else on top of that is a different kink in the BDSM or Alternative Lifestyle tree.
When in doubt, go back to the dictionary.
 
False.
Cuckolding: To make a cuckold of.
Cuckold: A man whose spouse or romantic partner is unfaithful.
Source: American Heritage Dictionary.

Anything else on top of that is a different kink in the BDSM or Alternative Lifestyle tree.
When in doubt, go back to the dictionary.
Don't get all butt hurt. The definition in a dictionary is one thing. This site is full of examples of reality. The cuck lifestyle as evidence on this site attracts gay men and men who lack traditional male traits and who are typically attracted to their wife's black lovers.
 
Don't get all butt hurt. The definition in a dictionary is one thing. This site is full of examples of reality. The cuck lifestyle as evidence on this site attracts gay men and men who lack traditional male traits and who are typically attracted to their wife's black lovers.


You make the mistake of reading emotion in my response. There was none.
It's pretty simple. I've been a cuckold before, and there was no male-to-male action. There was no male-to-male desire. It was all about the woman enjoying black men for sex while I remained faithful.
So again, your definition is incorrect.
 
You make the mistake of reading emotion in my response. There was none.
It's pretty simple. I've been a cuckold before, and there was no male-to-male action. There was no male-to-male desire. It was all about the woman enjoying black men for sex while I remained faithful.
So again, your definition is incorrect.
Again, relax. As a natural submissive, you surely must understand your place in this debate. Your place is not to ignore the huge volume of evidence which is contrary to your position. You may want cuckolding to be something that it isn't, but your wishful thinking is as filled with fantasy as the cucks who want to be pounded in the ass by their wife's black bull.
 
Again, relax. As a natural submissive, you surely must understand your place in this debate. Your place is not to ignore the huge volume of evidence which is contrary to your position. You may want cuckolding to be something that it isn't, but your wishful thinking is as filled with fantasy as the cucks who want to be pounded in the ass by their wife's black bull.

Calm down, pal. Surely, you must understand when you're wrong. Well, apparently you don't.
Your place isn't to redefine words when you feel like it, just because of some anecdotal observations.
Your wishful thinking to push bisexuality and homosexuality into cuckolding is just that, wishful thinking.
Sorry, but cuckolding is and always will be just a man whose wife is unfaithful.
 
If you could guide it or legislate it, how would you CHOOSE for it to progress in daily life. Details.
Like you, I believe the time has come to explore some kind of legal sanction for extra-marital sexual activity...specifically and especially for women and their preferred lovers.
Perhaps some kind of formal recognition and "liberty" that would protect women(and the bulls that we allow to fuck us) from any civil recourse by husbands when or if the change their mind about freedoms that they once encouraged, and in many cases, even introduced us to.

Some kind of document...a sexual Power of Attorney if you will,where a husband formally and officially surrenders all expectation of "exclusive" rights to his wife's body. Issues such as household finances, the possibility of pregnancy and STI's/wellness, and the expectations of women (and their chosen additional partners when it comes to the cuckold husband's behavior and support, should all be addressed and formalized, with the enforcement and protective power of law behind it all. The privileges and demands of and from all parties should be spelled out, with an ability to revise and amend reserved, as long as all original signatories agree.

If we can all take our clothes off and honestly explore such sex/life styles, physically, we should also be secure and serious enough to all sit down; woman, lover(s), and husband/cuckold, with an attorney, and formally draft a memorandum of understanding, or something similar, then to have that agreement recorded publicly.
 
I'd like to see the lifestyle come out into the open, even have a legal status. Not marriage, or even common law marriage, but a judicial acknowledgement that things have changed in the marriage and there is now a recognized and honored lover, or bull or dom.

Maybe even a pre-cuckold agreement - outlining rights, privileges and obligations. And, penalties or consequences to those who violate the agreement or otherwise destabilize the situation or this new developing aspect of our society.

If the 3-way relationship becomes legally established it would likely lead to agreements that are similar to marriage agreements that are common today in some countries. This could mean that the definition of cheating is switched around and that the white man and woman are restricted or in some way discouraged to have sex because it could lead to a violation of the terms of the agreement.
I admit that that’s rather speculative.

What I think and really hope we‘ll see more of is that discriminatory practices that today prevent black men from having “access” to white women will be illegal and frowned upon by society. We already outlaw discrimination when it comes to college admission or the right to own a business in most developed countries but I think we’ll see more granular regulation and better enforcement.
As an example, here in my home town Cape Town, there are still night clubs where black men are turned away at the door in a discriminatory way, often even by black bouncers. That’s not to deny that there’s been progress in South Africa but we’re not there yet and I’m optimistic that the future will bring more progress in this regard.

Based on my experience, I firmly believe that many black men and white women are naturally attracted to each other. We will see a lot more of these couples out in the open if we just grant black men the same opportunities that white men enjoy.
 
If the 3-way relationship becomes legally established it would likely lead to agreements that are similar to marriage agreements that are common today in some countries. This could mean that the definition of cheating is switched around and that the white man and woman are restricted or in some way discouraged to have sex because it could lead to a violation of the terms of the agreement.
I admit that that’s rather speculative.

What I think and really hope we‘ll see more of is that discriminatory practices that today prevent black men from having “access” to white women will be illegal and frowned upon by society.

Perhaps South Africa is a society more ripe for progress than even the U.S.

Maybe South Africa should look as some corrective legislation - an affirmative action program of sorts - with a special set of laws not only allowing black men rights to date single white women, but to socialize with married white women in a completely open fashion, without fear of retribution of any type. Nothing ungentlemanly, but simply allowing for open approachment, conversation, suggestion and solicitation. This way, nature and culture can take its course and help to correct unnatural imbalances in the society.

Then, in the event of a relationship developing, there could be some judicial review to outline the cuckold relationship and protect the rights of all involved, including the black man.
 
Call me a jealous obsessive figure....are women also called jealous obsessive figures if they don’t want their husbands fucking other people.

I don’t know if we are going to get to this - where people are going to counseling to overcome being jealous obsessive figures and work on becoming true lovers of their spouse, letting them fuck other people

Too many people in the lifestyle have gotten away from the true meaning of "cuckold." It simply means a male that allows, directly or indirectly, his wife to have sex with other men while doing nothing to successfully stop it.

It does NOT qualify its own definition, nor does it require the cuckold to be free from jealousy. All of that is his problem, and his wife and her lover(s) should not be concerned in the least.
 
Excellent Topic!

I have commented about this before in other threads, so if you’ve read my responses before, please don’t be offended!

Prior to the pill, it was considered, but never spoken about, that men, especially in middle and upper class income levels would have affairs. We saw this in “Mad Men” and countless other movies during that timeframe.

Women had three things running against them:

  • By and large, they weren’t in the workplace. Sitting at home for most of the time precluded other adult interaction
  • As such, they had no independent means of support. Their husband brought home the wages, so if she ‘had fun’ she stood an outstanding chance of losing some if not all of her financial support.
  • But by far, the most important consideration was impregnation. Sure, males could use condoms, but most didn’t.
These issues, while not completely eliminating female sexual adventures, put a serious dent in them! Then along came the pill, IUD, and other safe and effective forms of Birth Control.

Like any other social change, it took time to gather momentum. However, now that women are fully integrated into the workplace, they have independent means of support and they do have a reliable form of birth control, the pendulum is beginning to swing (rather fast) back towards the middle of ‘non-conventional relationships’

Females will start having affairs as much as men were 50-plus years ago. Also, by being in the workplace, females have met with success, which instills confidence and a sense of power. I believe that these two perceptions provide the motivation for the female in the relationship to express to her spouse what she wants, needs and desires more freely than if she still didn’t have these attributes.

Hence, the rise, and continued rise, in non-traditional relationships (Cuckolding, Stag/Vixen, pure Open Relationships, etc). So now let’s turn to interracial situations.

This is an off-shoot of the developing non-traditional relationship I described above. SOME women are curious about Blacks. SOME women enjoy Blacks. But remember, you are in an interracial forum. So you ladies out there (Myself very much included) have already identified with what interests you and have sought it out.

So, after spending a bunch of time reading contributions to this forum, it’s easy to get the impression that Black/White relationships are ‘sweeping the nation’ – while I agree that open relationships might very well be, the increase in open situations has led to an increase in Black/White relationships.

For example, we don’t discuss other sexual interests in this forum. I would wager to say that people who are interested in other sexual play would, after reading a forum dedicated to what they like, would believe that their unique fetish was ‘sweeping the nation’ as well.

So, in conclusion; Do I believe that open relationships (Cuckolding, Stag/Vixen, other aspects) are increasing percentage wise. Yes I do. At a very rapid rate.

Do I believe that this will become generally accepted. Yes, more than it is now.

Do I believe that Black/White relationships (Traditional man/wife) will increase? Yes, at a tremendous rate – you’re already seeing it on television and other media.

Do I believe that Black/White open relationships (where the Black is the Bull). Yes, but as a factor of percentile of open relationships in general.

I know, I tend to ‘run off at the fingers’ but I’ve never believed in only partially responding to a question. I’ve read a lot on the topic, allowing me to come to the conclusions outlined above. If anyone wishes to discuss this further, they may contribute directly to the thread, or shoot me a private note. Either way, look forward to continued observations!

Donna
. Yes. All of this is increasing today for many different reasons some of which include womens sense of power , freedom, and independance. Some because people enjoy these forms of entertainment. Couples find renewed pleasure in sex with open relationships that now seem to include more black men. We see more integration and more mixing of the races everywhere we go. But things still have a ways to go before cuckholding is publically accepted and encouraged.
 
Too many people in the lifestyle have gotten away from the true meaning of "cuckold." It simply means a male that allows, directly or indirectly, his wife to have sex with other men while doing nothing to successfully stop it.

It does NOT qualify its own definition, nor does it require the cuckold to be free from jealousy. All of that is his problem, and his wife and her lover(s) should not be concerned in the least.
I think it’s more about being somewhat free from judgement
Being outed as a Cuckoldress or cuckold can have disastrous consequences professionally which is nonsense
Is a person suddenly a bad attorney or doctor etc purely because someone chooses to out them as a Cuckoldress .
Imagine how many politicians around the world are compromised because they cannot have the public know they are cuckolded, gay, bi, Jets fans :)
 
I think it’s more about being somewhat free from judgement
Being outed as a Cuckoldress or cuckold can have disastrous consequences professionally which is nonsense
Is a person suddenly a bad attorney or doctor etc purely because someone chooses to out them as a Cuckoldress .
Imagine how many politicians around the world are compromised because they cannot have the public know they are cuckolded, gay, bi, Jets fans :)

A legal framework would institutionally out more, if not all people and ******* it to be more acceptable.

Harold McMilllan . . .
 
I think it’s more about being somewhat free from judgement
Being outed as a Cuckoldress or cuckold can have disastrous consequences professionally which is nonsense
Is a person suddenly a bad attorney or doctor etc purely because someone chooses to out them as a Cuckoldress .
Imagine how many politicians around the world are compromised because they cannot have the public know they are cuckolded, gay, bi, Jets fans :)
. Why I say there is a ways to go before this is publically acceptable. Do we know women who have studs outside of marraige. Yes Hollywood tabloids full of them. Do we know white women having sex with black men. Yes. Same magazines. Is it common practice in most communities. Not Yet. Is it still not acceptable behavior. Yes. Are white couples doing it. Yes. Are there fewer BBC virgins. Yes.
 
. Why I say there is a ways to go before this is publically acceptable. Do we know women who have studs outside of marraige. Yes Hollywood tabloids full of them. Do we know white women having sex with black men. Yes. Same magazines. Is it common practice in most communities. Not Yet. Is it still not acceptable behavior. Yes. Are white couples doing it. Yes. Are there fewer BBC virgins. Yes.

We think it is more common than anyone - including those in the lifestyle - realize. Much more common.
 
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