The Future of Cuckoldry and Hotwifing . . . .
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Christina wants you back on the soapbox ASAP ??
I respectfully disagree with your first paragraph. How many wives did major characters have in the Bible? On top of that, men - usually powerful men - had mistresses. Look at the various kings of Europe.
The monogamous relationship was necessary as the man didn't want to be raising a baby that wasn't his. This restricted the women from enjoying other men. Meanwhile, men were fathering children with BOTH their wives and mistresses - the Bastard Jon Snow in Game of Thrones is a prime example.
Within the Arab world today, the men have multiple wives. The restriction being that he has to support them all equally, limiting the number of wives he can have due to financial reasons
Monogamous relationships for us common folk is a relative recent invention, something that is embraced in the US, but not so much in Europe. Case in point. A famous French President passed away in the 1980s (I think) (maybe Pompedeu?) Anyway, at his funeral, his wife was in attendance, as was his mistress - standing right next to her. I think you can find the person I'm referring to on the internet somewhere.
We can discuss this all along, and alternative relationships will slowly develop within the US, but I still contend that it will be a very slow process until we begin, as a nation, to educate our *******.
The monogamous relationship was necessary as the man didn't want to be raising a baby that wasn't his. This restricted the women from enjoying other men. Meanwhile, men were fathering children with BOTH their wives and mistresses - the Bastard Jon Snow in Game of Thrones is a prime example.
Within the Arab world today, the men have multiple wives. The restriction being that he has to support them all equally, limiting the number of wives he can have due to financial reasons
Monogamous relationships for us common folk is a relative recent invention, something that is embraced in the US, but not so much in Europe. Case in point. A famous French President passed away in the 1980s (I think) (maybe Pompedeu?) Anyway, at his funeral, his wife was in attendance, as was his mistress - standing right next to her. I think you can find the person I'm referring to on the internet somewhere.
We can discuss this all along, and alternative relationships will slowly develop within the US, but I still contend that it will be a very slow process until we begin, as a nation, to educate our *******.
Donna, I don’t disagree that polygamy was going on but I was more saying society has always seemed to push marriage between man and woman (for various reasons) and permitting the other kinds of relationships. But you make a great point.
Donna, i know you have mentioned the type of sexual education you would have - what would that entail
Knowledge of all the different types of relationships you can have (pro and cons), would you teach how to have great sex in those courses and the different ways you can do it.....
What topics would you cover
Donna, i know you have mentioned the type of sexual education you would have - what would that entail
Knowledge of all the different types of relationships you can have (pro and cons), would you teach how to have great sex in those courses and the different ways you can do it.....
What topics would you cover
Hans, you always have great pics......every pic always looks like black to white is just meant to be. Looks so perfect together. Hahahahaha
The aesthetics are just beautiful.....you find pics that really show that
Thanks Anthony ?
Anthony, tall order for just a chat session!
Sex (pure biology) would begin in about the fourth grade. By that time, girls know what girls are and boys know what boys are - especially today.
The biological aspect would continue, with probably diseases introduced in the fifth and sixth grades
By Junior High (Seventh and Eighth grades) various orientations (straight, gay, lesbian, etc) would be introduced as 'normal' orientations that people adopt. At this point, nature or nurture issues would be explored.
In high school, the entire sexual experience would be explored. Relationships, Birth Control, and most everything else would be introduced.
The goal at the end would be that the average student would come out of High School with a complete understanding of biological, disease, ethical, orientation and relationship issues. They would also be encouraged to find what they like and embrace it - with the overriding focus on not hurting anyone in the process, the pitfalls of *******, and ******* sex having been stressed.
That's it in a nutshell.
Sex (pure biology) would begin in about the fourth grade. By that time, girls know what girls are and boys know what boys are - especially today.
The biological aspect would continue, with probably diseases introduced in the fifth and sixth grades
By Junior High (Seventh and Eighth grades) various orientations (straight, gay, lesbian, etc) would be introduced as 'normal' orientations that people adopt. At this point, nature or nurture issues would be explored.
In high school, the entire sexual experience would be explored. Relationships, Birth Control, and most everything else would be introduced.
The goal at the end would be that the average student would come out of High School with a complete understanding of biological, disease, ethical, orientation and relationship issues. They would also be encouraged to find what they like and embrace it - with the overriding focus on not hurting anyone in the process, the pitfalls of *******, and ******* sex having been stressed.
That's it in a nutshell.
So as I learn more about cuckolding, I’ve seen couples that successfully manage the lifestyle and use the lifestyle to their benefit. It seems like a lot of couples who have been able to do this have an established great relationship and then added cuckolding on and their relationship is flourishing even more because this is something they share together....it’s not even loving that bull as much as something you can journey together that brings intense pleasure to both parties.
I wanted to see if there are any couples that started cuckolding early in their relationship, before they had a fulfilling, really good, established, caring and full marriage. Is anyone in that kind of arrangement happy as those in the above example?
I wanted to see if there are any couples that started cuckolding early in their relationship, before they had a fulfilling, really good, established, caring and full marriage. Is anyone in that kind of arrangement happy as those in the above example?
Thanks for that overview. Pretty interesting.
We did. We "opened" our marriage about 6 months in. It has been over 14 years now. Truth be told, I was still seeing other people while we were dating.
Donna, we all know how difficult this will be to have in American schools. Do you think offering courses in college on your high school curriculum is doable. I think when you don’t involve parents and give ******* options to taking these courses - people in America are more ready to allowing that.
I feel you. I think we need to do a better job working with college freshmen and sophomores. I would love to brainstorm with you what these courses would look like on PM....
Good *******
Good *******
As far as the future of cuckoldry.....I think the more polyamory gets accepted the better future cuckolding will have. It will play the same role as gay and lesbian acceptance. As soon as gay and lesbian couples became acceptable it open up the door for the LGBTQ community to gain acceptance
I think that polyamory will open up the door for the acceptance for a bunch of open relationships and lifestyles. Just like people don’t understand all the LGBTQ community stuff - once gay and lesbian lifestyle was accepted they kicked down the door.
I think that polyamory will open up the door for the acceptance for a bunch of open relationships and lifestyles. Just like people don’t understand all the LGBTQ community stuff - once gay and lesbian lifestyle was accepted they kicked down the door.
The acceptance of polyamory is coming. If you YouTube consensual non monogamy- you have reputable people - professors, experts, etc. saying monogamy is unrealistic and we need more options than just monogamy. This movement is picking up steam and it’s only a matter of time
Once polyamory is accepted, like Biggie once said, “KICK IN THE DOOR”
Are there any non bulls who understood that last sentence - hahahahaha
Once polyamory is accepted, like Biggie once said, “KICK IN THE DOOR”
Are there any non bulls who understood that last sentence - hahahahaha
This is a reference that although the mass population don’t understand the community, they have accepted it
Same thing with cuckolding - many might not understand it but it will be accepted, once polyamory is accepted
The above personal attack is not a conversation/discussion. Your attack is not productive or constructive criticism. You don't know me, therefore all your assumptions about me and the way I love my life are baseless and in fact false. My opinions are mine and you don't have to agree with me on this. Did your mom or someone ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all? You should memorize this advice and practice it faithfully. My final thought for you and people here like you is you should take my advice and otherwise MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!! Geez SMH
LOVE the idea of it being ceremonious! ?
