As a single guy who has been in the lifestyle for at least 12 years as a bull I have had several hotwives over the years whisper to me "I'm falling in love with you" and I have always shut them down each and every time because the love that they were trying to give me was not mine to accept!
Like accepting stolen property, you know that those items belong to someone else and only a certain caliber or quality of person accept property he clearly knows belongs to someone else! The same goes for a married woman's love!
It's never crossed my mind to ever take a man's wife because she is his alone and not mine to take. I'm going borrow the ******* out of her though! If I house sit for you you're gonna get your house back. If I borrow your car you're gonna get your car back. If I borrow your wife you're gonna get your wife back minus how tight she was when you lent her to me!
It makes no sense to steal treasure from a man who is already sharing his precious treasure with you openly. Also there is nothing sexually that I will ever say or ever do to a man's hotwife in private that i wouldn't say or do to her in his presence! That's why when it comes to myself and the level of bull that I am you will never hear that I ever made the husband feel as though I didn't want him around or ever wanted to take his for myself. Every time I have ever recieved alone time with a man's hotwife It always was offered to me because I earned it. I would rather have a woman's husband thinking "if he is this good to her with me sitting here watching how much better is he with her alone"? The alone time is supposed to be for his hotwife to have an even better experience and it's also supposed to be a reward to the bull because he has proven himself trustworthy and that he can do an amazing job of pleasing her beyond expectations.
That's actually a pet peeve of mine when I hear a husband say "the bull doesn't want me around"! How the hell are you gonna kick a man out of his own party that he's catering and *******? But I digress!
Yeah stealing is low vibrational and low quality *******!