When it has and does happen to us, it’s always fantastic and makes proud as could be. Has to be the right kinda place with the right kinda crowd in order to get the attention I enjoy, and one that stood out was the garden bar area at a club in Hollywood Florida, no kiddies around, I sat my girl next to a solo black guy while I sat on the other side. I smiled and nodded and then him talk to her , laugh, etc, and then I got up to use restroom ie to leave them alone. Got back, he was fingering her while a couple other black guys watched. I sat down and let them enjoy the show.