So, with all this frustration and injustice going on I wanted to post something and really not sure this is forum for it but will see. I know there are white couples and white women that jump on here and are a bit some or not sure what to do next and I've been there. I've been seeing black men for over 5 years now but I was about 29 until I first did. So, i'm not a therapist or an expert on anything but just one women and my message to others .....I guess I should say to other white women and couples too......don't wait. Try. Girls, take that step. It's about to be June make it a goal to meet at least one black man a month for the rest of the year. Yes, have sex with him but also like have a ******* with him, coffee, have him over to chill out. See how you feel at the end of this year. No one should tell you you have to date someone black but try and don't just meet up with one guy and stop like if you see make a plan to meet one many a month thats what 7 guys by new years you will see and learn about about you and how your life can be. It's a positive step for YOU and our world. So, I don't have all the answers at all and I'm still a work in progress myself but if I can help please reach out. I'm happy to skype or kik to verify and share and even if you don't want to chat at first that is fine too. I've been there too. Not sure if this is the best for meeting men either - no offense to the site owners - but it is the web and people are all over and you really need to find local guys but it's a start and we all should help each other connect. Ok, rant over Hope you all are well and safe