y Limits, of course there are limits. There are people who's kinky ideas of sex i would never tolerate. *******, piss games, severe bondage with pain. I'm not letting any one stick needles through my nipples or clit. ******* or hanging, no way There are literally people dead and others in jail for going to far with that one. I've done a few mild bondage party's, having sex while restrained can be a turn on kind of like a ******* fantasy meany of us females and some males have. Those however hardly ever include real pain. When i did those my guy as well as two or three other male friends went along to assure they didn't get out of control.
For me anal sex totally out. I realize for many that is a pleasurable experience. I had it done one time totally unexpected it did not go well. The guy was hung and is was very painful and i ended up with small tears that required medical treatment. The Dr. explained in great detail how i had a small rectum and should not have that type of sex. I was a freshman at college and having my parents know along with the painful medical treatment , never do that again.
I did groups of guys and my husband and many of my lovers kidded me about no group being to large. That too must have a limit i just never reached mine.