As far as looks;
I prefer fit and muscular.. Biceps, pecs and lats are my weakness.. Broad back and narrower waist.
As I am taller than most women, he must be at least 6 ft. The taller the better actually.
Hygiene is also a must, especially dental.
In other areas and attributes;
A confident demeanor, without the need to boast.
Intelligence is also a big plus. He doesn't have to have a Phd but seduction and the experience is always enhanced with titillating conversation, a degree of passion, and banter.
As my Gran use to say, "If you are the strongest, prettiest, smartest, richest or best in the room there is no need to announce it. EVERYONE already knows"..
So I always think if someone has to tell me how wonderful they are, then they most likely don't believe it themselves..
It's difficult for me to see a man as anything other than a fuck if he is not a master of the intricacies, dynamics and responsibilities of the Bull / Sub interaction.
Wow, I sound like picky woman.. well if the Louboutin's fit..