From what I read on this site, they do if they all agree to it. Lots of posts from couples who say they are owned by a black bull and he controls all aspects of their sexuality. His demands are paramount to their needs or desires.
Is it still cheating if
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most women who cuck their man do what they want and do not obey bulls or other men. Most women who have a willing cuckold husband value them and will not do anything to hurt them and see no need to lie or cheat. Chances are that if a woman thinks she needs to obey some man besides her husband her marriage is on the way out and besides why wouldn't she tell since it will make her hubby wild
You have the perfect wife.
Didn’t say that
Yes, it "matters" ... if for no other reason than to let the spouse KNOW where she is for safety sakes. If the understood agreement is that she let her spouse know when she's meeting with her lovers, its a breach of the agreement when she doesn't do it.
Regardless whether the spouse participates, is present, or not ... he needs to know she's safe and who to contact when she doesn't return as scheduled.
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Our bull want me to cheat and meet him without telling husband i do meet him but after telling husband but pretend as I am cheating that way everyone get there things without any harm.
If the bull tries to meet the wife alone, it can get complicated, and lead down a path you might not want to go to as a couple. Just my opinion.
To play devil's advocate, I thought it would be hot if my wife spontaneously met up with her bull behind my back, and I found out afterwards through smelling his cologne it aftershave or the smell of sex on her, or her casually telling me about it before bed or something. So she did it, but told me about it in a text conversation and sent me pictures of the two of them in our bed together, sweaty and with a post-coital glow. Did she cheat on me? Probably not if the definition of cheating is being deceptive or going outside the bounds we set for our marriage. If you go by the definitions a lot of people have talked about here, maybe so, but if that's the case, I all but asked her to cheat on me. So if that's the case, does it matter if she cheated on me? She certainly wouldn't need to come to a forum and ask.
I'd say the reason that "cheating" is a problem is because it involves doing something that would hurt your partner. If you have to ask, it's my hunch that you're asking people to justify something you're considering doing, knowing full well that it will probably hurt your partner. If that's the case, I'd advise against it. If it's not the case, I don't understand why you're asking the question. The important question is whether what you're doing would hurt the person you love, right? Not what people on the internet call what you're doing? Who among us is qualified to tell you whether this would hurt the person you love? That's something you're going to have answer for yourself, even if you don't like that answer.
I'd say the reason that "cheating" is a problem is because it involves doing something that would hurt your partner. If you have to ask, it's my hunch that you're asking people to justify something you're considering doing, knowing full well that it will probably hurt your partner. If that's the case, I'd advise against it. If it's not the case, I don't understand why you're asking the question. The important question is whether what you're doing would hurt the person you love, right? Not what people on the internet call what you're doing? Who among us is qualified to tell you whether this would hurt the person you love? That's something you're going to have answer for yourself, even if you don't like that answer.
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Cheating or not do what makes you happy. Life is short love it to the fullest.
You are absolutely correct. I didn't even think about the safety element. Safety is of course paramount in this lifestyle, especially from a disease risk.
My girlfriend and I enjoy a great relationship because we communicate desires, wants and needs...We hide nothing...There is no shame and guilt...In an nutshell we don't play games, it's about trust and respect...Relationships built on a solid base will last the test of time...Not perfect, but it works for us...
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That is sometimes my situation as well when I am traveling on business. If I happen to meet a charming black man at a Conference during cocktail hour, it is not always easy to communicate with my husband beforehand. Since my husband and have a clear understanding about acceptable behaviors, I know that he will be perfectly happy if I tell him about my impromptu play session later on. In fact, unexpected encounters with black men are one of my husbands biggest fantasies. He just wants to know about it after the fact.
Of course it is. Come on man
Glad there are still honest women. It blows my mind. If your husband already lets you have sex with other men under a certain arrangement, why would you be a narcissistic asshole and do it behind their back? This applies for men too. It’s like you strike gold with a partner but still have to take advantage of them. More people need to have self respect in the lifestyle. Both men and women are a dime a dozen and if somebody doesn’t fit into what you want, there is somebody else that will. Not complicated
Yea and you don’t owe the bull anything. It’s annoying how scummy men can be. I’m a dude and it’s embarrassing
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