A few black men have asked me to use it when together but other than that I would not freely use it myself.I have had mixed experiences with this. I've had guy say to me, "Mmm baby suck that N dick". But then if I say it back they will look at me like I said something wrong... but also some guys love it.
For me its like being called a cunt, whore, cumster, bitch during sex is hot for me but say that after and I might not be as open to it.
Any advice on using it?