Don't be asenine! Of course you can say anything you want, but you should also be ADULT understand and accept that some things bring repercussions. I'm mature enough to KNOW that word does not suit or fit me, and if asked beforehand will say so without judgement. Someone who would use that word after my own personal declaration in my mind is insulting me, denigrating me with INTENT. Something MUST give.I don't know what that means. Are there words you're not allowed to say?