I told my wife I wanted her to be fucked by a BBC

[MacNfries]

Should I continue slowly overtime showing her porn to see if she feels more like it, or just leave it. What are your thoughts on the comments ive shared?

Once you've made your desires known ...

... maybe develop a good friendship with a black guy, have him over several times so she gets to know him without the expectations of your desire. Maybe she'll agree to a 3-some with him later on. Note that this isn't a instant ON-OFF activity you're suggesting, and you probably won't be the conductor of the train once it gets to rollin'.

 

[anthonytimmerm]

Hi,

So today I told my wife about the whole BBC stuff and told her how I would love her to ride a BBC or see her getting pounded by a big dick and see the cum dripping out of her pussy… so this conversation was a little longer but I asked her if that turned her on and if BBC turned her on. She told me that it was not a turn on in particular but that of course she thought about it when being single. She’s never been overly promiscuous so before committing to a relationship she thought to herself if she really wants the commitment.

Anyway she told me that she doesn’t feel like doing it while in a relationship, she doesnt feel like she needs it or it turns her on. Also shes afraid of having sex and catching feelings and ruining our relationship. Tbf this is a recent fantasy of mine but I have a good cock,8” and a good financial situation so she doesnt want to risk it… ive showed her some videos of women that look like her being fucked by huge cocks to see her reaction and was impressed by the cock and all that but she told me that doesn’t want to do it in a relationship with me. Should I continue slowly overtime showing her porn to see if she feels more like it, or just leave it. What are your thoughts on the comments ive shared?

I think this is a great start. Imagine what it will be like for your wife to learn that her husband wants her to fuck another guy. Of course that's going to get her thinking and be reluctant, especially if you have a good and strong relationship and a good sex life.

As some of the people in the responses already mentioned... in her mind it will probably trigger a response that she thinks you want to have sex with another woman too.

I would agree with the people that have said try to take it slow... step by step. Introduce fantasy and at some stage some porn and toys and leave it at that... she will bring it up herself over time in different situations.

Personally, I have a bit the same situation. I've come clean to my wife and she's also reluctant, but I think your wife responded to it much more openly about it. She did not tell you: no way in hell am I ever going to do such a thing. She said that she thought about it when she was single. That she is hesitant. That she does not want to introduce this risk into the relationship... that means that in her mind, she's seen herself do it and then thought it too risky...

And she has not been agry with you for even bringing it up. She can laught at a joke and at the same time is willing to introduce video into your play. That's pretty big steps in a long-term project I would say... keep it up.

Please DM me if you'd like to chat. I'm interested to learn more about her responses and how she looks at this.

 

[hood1211]

Don't push her into it, just lay it out there as it's something you're ok with, especially if you can watch, at least in the beginning. To me there's a difference between love sex and sport sex. BBC is sport sex for me.

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[wifeforbbcbull]

I brought this up to my wife about 15 years ago. She had a lot of trouble understanding it at first. She thought I was looking for a way to have sex with other women. Slowly she began to understand that it’s not about me but all about her pleasure. She still doesn’t want to do the real thing. She thinks it’ll be breaking her vows and she said she’s worried she’ll like it too much and not want my little dick anymore. lol. I’ve told her that’s okay as long as I get to watch and be part of it. She may never do it and that’s okay. But we have had a lot of fun with the fantasy. We watch interracial porn together and she pretends to have a big black boyfriend that fucks her brains out. You may have to just settle for something like that and honestly it’s not bad. It’s still a ton of fun. But good luck in your journey.

This is where we are...

My wife loves IR porn (found a tab open on her phone).

We watch IR porn together (cuckold, gangbangs, etc). She always tells me she fantasizes about brung the girl in the film.

We cuckold role play with bbc dildos. She talks dirty to me, has me get her ready, makes me clean her up ftom her ejaculating dildo. Makes me jack off while she sucks and fucks her toys. Tells me her pussy only belongs to BBC.

But she keeps saying no when I tell her I'd like to take the next step.

I tell her I love her and want her to experience the most pleasure possible.

She was saying no. Now she just smiles and tells me we'll see. It used to be a hard no.

 

[StewM]

Be careful what you wish for as you might get it. Many of us who have gone down this route are forever ruined. There are so many aspects of this and you could lose her to a new lover. Your intimacy can grow but so can her resentment of you.

Does your beautiful wife resent you for starting her on this path?

 

[zvega]

She was saying no. Now she just smiles and tells me we'll see. It used to be a hard no.

Maybe Maybe Maybe

 

[anthonytimmerm]

This is where we are...

My wife loves IR porn (found a tab open on her phone).

We watch IR porn together (cuckold, gangbangs, etc). She always tells me she fantasizes about brung the girl in the film.

We cuckold role play with bbc dildos. She talks dirty to me, has me get her ready, makes me clean her up ftom her ejaculating dildo. Makes me jack off while she sucks and fucks her toys. Tells me her pussy only belongs to BBC.

But she keeps saying no when I tell her I'd like to take the next step.

I tell her I love her and want her to experience the most pleasure possible.

She was saying no. Now she just smiles and tells me we'll see. It used to be a hard no.

Wow, you've come a long way my friend...

 

[Compress]

This is where we are...

My wife loves IR porn (found a tab open on her phone).

We watch IR porn together (cuckold, gangbangs, etc). She always tells me she fantasizes about brung the girl in the film.

We cuckold role play with bbc dildos. She talks dirty to me, has me get her ready, makes me clean her up ftom her ejaculating dildo. Makes me jack off while she sucks and fucks her toys. Tells me her pussy only belongs to BBC.

But she keeps saying no when I tell her I'd like to take the next step.

I tell her I love her and want her to experience the most pleasure possible.

She was saying no. Now she just smiles and tells me we'll see. It used to be a hard no.

You’re a bit further than me. Good luck!

 

[zvega]

You’re a bit further than me. Good luck!

Good luck to you too!

 

[johnyrockets]

Just have fun and be relaxed about it. There is an amazing scene between Dredd and Kristen Scott where she has like 10 orgasms. My wife just stared at amazement. I never thought she would like IR open but she loves seeing BBC. Probably never go the next step but fun seeing her get all turned on.

 

[Curtis7800]

Just have fun and be relaxed about it. There is an amazing scene between Dredd and Kristen Scott where she has like 10 orgasms. My wife just stared at amazement. I never thought she would like IR open but she loves seeing BBC. Probably never go the next step but fun seeing her get all turned on.

Do you have the link for that video?