How to approach?

But it’s better in a way cos there’s no pressure on any of us. Just have a few drinks , a bit of a flirt.., and see where the night takes us. 😊😊
Absolutely! Sounds like it will be a really fun night for you and your husband, regardless of how it all turns out! That first night out will be filed with sexual tension. if Things go smoothly, you can always go back to Leeds for another more intimate date.
 
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Just ask him or express your desires…… kiss mi teeth …:🤦🏽‍♂️
 
Just think of it like this (A) what black man will turn down pussy from a beautiful, sexy, and curvy woman, (B) most men want what they “can’t have” being married women, and (C) this situation would be beneficial for both parties, and noncommittal for the guy! It’s a win, win! I’m 99.9% sure he’d say yes with no issues! No need to feel embarrassed…as a woman, and looking how you look, when was the last time you were rejected for sex when you’ve come on to a guy? 🤔🤔🤔 probably never! 😂🤣🤷🏽‍♂️
 
Here’s an update ... thank you for all your reply’s.. all been helpful x
Hubby decided to ‘ banter chat’ with him. Told him that he made me smile and also told him that I joked to hubby that he can ‘ invite him round for a cuppa anytime’ !
it did advance to them chatting about me and the guy saying some pretty nice things and telling hubby ‘ how lucky he is’. My husband is not shy in coming forward got his phone out and showed him a few cheeky sexy photos of me. Anyway he left it at that and didn’t make any suggestions.
I thought that was that, but this guy is from a city about 30 miles from us ( leeds) we are due to visit leeds overnight in a hotel at the end of September for an occasion. Hubby had mentioned this and the guy had asked hubby if he can meet us for some drinks in the city that night.... no mention of anything sexual... however.... I think ... just maybe .., that after a few drinks I’ll have to try out my sexual seductive skills. 😉
Potentially get hubby caged a few days before the meet?
 
Of course he wants to have sex with you! Hes a guy! We dont compliment women in such a way and wish we could go shopping with them 😄
Best of luck, these circumstances dont happen for everyone, so Id say enjoy yourselves and i hope it happens again and again x
 
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Go for it !!! It’s provided my Wife and I over 20 years of exciting times .👌
 
Here’s an update ... thank you for all your reply’s.. all been helpful x
Hubby decided to ‘ banter chat’ with him. Told him that he made me smile and also told him that I joked to hubby that he can ‘ invite him round for a cuppa anytime’ !
it did advance to them chatting about me and the guy saying some pretty nice things and telling hubby ‘ how lucky he is’. My husband is not shy in coming forward got his phone out and showed him a few cheeky sexy photos of me. Anyway he left it at that and didn’t make any suggestions.
I thought that was that, but this guy is from a city about 30 miles from us ( leeds) we are due to visit leeds overnight in a hotel at the end of September for an occasion. Hubby had mentioned this and the guy had asked hubby if he can meet us for some drinks in the city that night.... no mention of anything sexual... however.... I think ... just maybe .., that after a few drinks I’ll have to try out my sexual seductive skills. 😉
Superb 👌👌👌😁
 
I’d see how the eye contact goes and if it’s inviting I’d approach. Would you be wearing any items to let me know you were into king of spades
 
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Take a little time to get familiar with him, invite him for a ******* and see from there but if he's willing you need to also invite me over
Soooo... hubby and I have so far kept this whole scene as ‘fantasy’. Chatted to a few guys on here but nothings developed from it for one reason or another. I guess the idea of meeting someone online intimidated me a bit and I’m not much into FaceTime calls or kik. So I guess the long story short here is that there is this Jamaican guy who delivers goods to my husbands workplace. Him and hubby always have a laugh and a joke together and I’ve heard him speak fondly of him ( in a non sexual way ) ... just said he’s a good guy. So I was visiting hubby’s workplace and this guy happened to be dropping something off and I had a very brief chat with him... he’s very nice... held my gaze a little too long, and was quite lovely. I had a bit of banter with him ( non sexual) and then he went off to sign paperwork with my husband. Afterwards my husband was buzzing ... telling me that this guy had told my husband how he found me beautiful and that he was a lucky man , and he knows now why hubby’s always smiling. So now my husband wants to approach this guy... show him some naughty photos... try and get him interested . Husband is a very straight to the point kinda guy so won’t feel embarrassed or worried... but I’m thinking what if this guy is horrified? And uncomfortable? Just because he’s paid me a compliment doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with me! He seemed lovely.. and right up my street , and he was without a doubt giving me the eye. But still... in everyday life people don’t just say ‘ hey mate... fancy fucking my wife’ 😂 anyway...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Don't drop this on him without having a ******* or two with him first, Men are usually ready for pussy even if we're married but coming from your husband this may scare him away especially if he's not familiar with cucks and their very hot wives.
 
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