Never really understood the impetus to lie or no show. When I was being groomed to be a bull by mature MWCs, that was their biggest pet peeve. They also told me that BBCs were more likely to show than not vs white dudes. I took this to mean that BBCs may or may not have access to sweet married white pussy on the regular whereas white dudes might take the opportunity to play with a white hotwife for granted.True, definitely had some fakes and catfish type experiences; but I’ve also had real guys that I’d already verified let me down too. I just try to make the best of things when that happens.