How do bulls feel? (Hotwife, Cuck & Bull dynamics)

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Hi :)

I've read alot about how Cuckolds feel during dates. And wifes.
But never from Bulls.

So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?
Do you just do it because you get to have sex?
Do you feel like "alpha" ?
Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?

I know there will be many answers and I'm just curious about them all :)
 
Hi :)

I've read alot about how Cuckolds feel during dates. And wifes.
But never from Bulls.

So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?
Do you just do it because you get to have sex?
Do you feel like "alpha" ?
Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?

I know there will be many answers and I'm just curious about them all :)
Me too.
 
Hi :)

I've read alot about how Cuckolds feel during dates. And wifes.
But never from Bulls.

So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?
Do you just do it because you get to have sex?
Do you feel like "alpha" ?
Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?

I know there will be many answers and I'm just curious about them all :)
Good question!
For us, Stag & Vixen couple, the power & control is with my wife. Although she gives her body to her Bull during her playdate, she does not relinquish control of the relationship. From day #1, they agreeded it was a "friends with benefits" relationship. No humiliation, domination, aggression, etc.
 
"So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?"
Depends on what they like, not everyone like being called a slut lol.

"Do you just do it because you get to have sex?"
Part of the whole hunt.

"Do you feel like "alpha" ?"
Yeah would be strange feeling submissive unless they are into that.

"Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?"
Yes domination factor is a big part for me at least. Big bonus if he watches with both awe and conflict. I hammer her harder till both accepts and gives in.
 
I get off on seeing super butch beefy guys getting a hard on when they know what they like and can't help it. I usually do bars that are known for the life style ....and the guys know exactly what is in store. I always offer to buy the 1st rough d..... Chat it up .... And just say I'm gonna kiss you! And see what happens from there !

I love it when the bull enjoys watching and getting off on that energy
 
Hi :)

I've read alot about how Cuckolds feel during dates. And wifes.
But never from Bulls.

So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?
Do you just do it because you get to have sex?
Do you feel like "alpha" ?
Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?

I know there will be many answers and I'm just curious about them all :)
Right now I have five full time ladies and two part time ladies to set up.

The boy friends on tap are one white hung boy friend that is V safe. Single. Two Arab hung boy friend one that is v safe. And two Black boy friends also hung neither v safe .

They all know I am the arranger not boy friend, husband or family member.

They all know the action continue until they are not only empty but balls dry.
 
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I don't even think of it as "taking" because I came into the lifestyle from swinging so I would get approached. I didn't think of the cuck thing until I played cards with a cuck and didn't know it until my ex-wife was touring their house with his and he made a comment or two. My ex-wife's co-worker James totally wanted to swap when I went over there with my ex for dinner. They lived deep in the rich part of west Houston, Katy area, Drake made a song about Katy. Anyway, after an expensive dinner with little seasoning, we had a ******* and a cigar. I noticed from the conversation that he liked my ex-wife, her butt had many fans. I don't know how I was able to swing the conversation that way, but I dropped that my ex loves anal. He moaned and took a stiff swig of his *******. I ******* you not. It was a guy moment. That instantly made us cool. His wife was a fascinating study in culture. At first she ignored us as James friends, then she connected with my wife through wine and girl talk, but was nervous around me until we took a ride in James restored car. The bottle of wine came with us and by the time we pulled back up to the driveway, I was fully convinced that 1. She would have blown me in the backseat if I asked and 2. She's got a thing for TI because she said I reminded her of him. Nothing happened that day, but the seed was planted. I never looked at mature white women the same after that. Also, I learned not all cuckold men are submissive and want to watch. Some of them are just like "take my wife please" and James was close to getting his wish. I would have made it a point to cum in her ass with TI blaring in the background. My ex was the odd one out, she wasn't attracted to James, too old. I still punished her for it, fake jealous like his wife was 2 inches from sucking my dick in the backseat. Good times
 
Hi :)

I've read alot about how Cuckolds feel during dates. And wifes.
But never from Bulls.

So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?
Do you just do it because you get to have sex?
Do you feel like "alpha" ?
Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?

I know there will be many answers and I'm just curious about them all :)

It feels great to be honest and I do not do it to have sex, I do it because I love watching them enjoying it as well.
Yes I do feel like alpha big time.
Yes I do I respect their boundaries and red lines, however, I love to cross those lines to an extent at some point when I know that we will get pleasure out of it and it gets hotter when they push their boundaries each time to enjoy more.
 
I had two that enjoyed having me while Tom was watching and one that preferred we be alone.
At some point, I always want some alone time, so I can be extra naughty
Generally the male half of couple likes to see the wife BE extra naughty. Kind of the allure of the situation, you giving yourself in a way that the hubby doesn’t because the dick hits different! Just my two cents !
 
I had two that enjoyed having me while Tom was watching and one that preferred we be alone.
At some point, I always want some alone time, so I can be extra naughty
When we started in the Cuckold lifestyle, the 1st playdate, my wife wanted it to be alone with her Bull. She just felt it would be too much going on, ie the first person she is having sex with, other than with me, in 10+ years and having me looking on.
After a few playdates, she asked if I wanted to attend, and I said not really as I greatly enjoyed the angst feeling while she's away with her Bull and what they are doing, several times over! She said she was glad that I felt that way as she wanted this to be about her enjoyment and being extra naughty, as you say @DeeAnnaMontana!
 
BBC is a commodity. Entire platforms, genre of porn, & millions of dollars a year are generated per year by people acting on their impulse to fetishize our BBCs. The only thing that is different vs 200 years ago in the West is who controls the BBC. We have agency.

How do Bulls feel? It’s a mixed bag, we’re not monolithic. I’m experienced & married to a white woman. I was her first BBC, she didn’t go back. While I could sneak around to play with a Hotwife/QoS, it’s way easier to allow my wife illusion of control. Cucks & Hotwives have to go through her which makes her horny, again BBC is a commodity & thus power.

How do bulls feel? We want to fuck. Whatever it takes to fuck, that’s what it takes.
 
I enjoy the husband watching. For lots of reasons. I guess I’m a natural exhibitionist. I enjoy hearing his feedback, complimenting him on how amazing his wife is. One of the hottest moment while I was fucking a wife that had been married to her dude for 15+ years, I had already made her cum multiple times, and without being prompted, she looked over at him and said ''In 15 years of marriage, you've never fucked me like this.' Lol. I do also love playing solo with wives, but more so after having already experienced her in front of him. It’s fun to see how she’s different when he’s not around.
 
It’s fun to see how she’s different when he’s not around.
I'm sure she would enjoy herself more when the husband is not present. My wife is totally uninhibited with her Bull as I'm not present.
In 15 years of marriage, you've never fucked me like this.' Lol.
Lol ... and I'm sure she meant it and he agreed after seeing his wife cum multiple times under you!
 
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Hi :)

I've read alot about how Cuckolds feel during dates. And wifes.
But never from Bulls.

So how do you feel and act when you are taking someones gf/wife?
Do you just do it because you get to have sex?
Do you feel like "alpha" ?
Do you like to play on your power and control both? Or just her infront of the cuck?

I know there will be many answers and I'm just curious about them all :)
First of all. I haven't taken any man's wife. The better way of saying this that, THEY were given to me. Offered. Presented to me willingly. Although a few wives couldn't get what they needed from the man they married, so they sought elsewhere and found me. I had no problem or issue or guilt about having sex with a married woman. If a woman isn't getting the attention or sexual satisfaction she deserves, why should she go without it?
I'm a man and enjoy making women feel like women. I can't deny that there's a powerful feeling knowing that I'm fuckin a woman that's married and her husband can't or won't satisfy her needs.
Yes having a much longer and thicker and fatter cock than she's married to does make it more exciting. I don't take any man's wife against her will. It's her choice to be with me. I find out what they aren't getting at home and I do it. Whatever they need or want. I've made 55 yr old women cum for the first time with a man.
I've been told by a woman and wife and mom of 4 ******* that my cock was so big and fat when it was in her pussy that I made her feel like a virgin.
I didn't take the wife that was online looking for a dominant black man because her husband was "too nice".
Nobody made her meet me in the hotel room so she could get her ass spanked hard like she needed.
I enjoy being with married women and making them feel like their husbands can't
 
I feel like the most privileged and highly single guy in the world! I get to enjoy the pleasurable company of sexy married women with their husband's permission and all they ask in return is that she is well treated, well satisfied, and well used, when I return her! Deal!👍♠️
This is what it's all about for us. It's not about the other guy trying to fuck her through the headboard. It's about her getting to experience different guys with different techniques and different sizes.
 
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