We all learned in life to not be entitled jerks towards one another or at least a good amount of the human population, but of course you have people who are so full of themselves that after self-sabotage a good marriage & relationship they end up ruining their lives all because they can't be a good decent human being in life. I love black women equally as much as I love white women etcetera, but don't be that person who thinks they're owed something when the item or food in question is meant for everyone in the household. At least you could do is thank the person for having the common courtesy to think of others and make sure there is enough for everyone after he or she gets their fair share of the item or food in question, it doesn't really matter who pays for it when the idea concept being that sharing is caring.
It seems like to me after a few years of marriage a person who is a Gemini become that person nobody can't stand in life, just being a irritating bitch for no reason.
Nevertheless one should always avoid a unhealthy marriage or toxic relationship when many huge red flags are clearly visible, Harley Quinn is the prime example of that before she got with Poison Ivy.
Every good person in life deserves a good happy life, especially when they always come through for those they love & care for in some way shape or form.