If I feel like I am a distraction for her then I would step out for a bit to let her ease in to making a first move with someone.
I wouldn’t let her meet someone without me either present or close by. She wouldn’t feel safe anyway and her feeling safe is important to us both.
I have told her that my perfect fantasy is to step out for some time and walk back in to find them at least making out or performing oral. She agrees as long as she knows I’m just a few steps away from her.
We also agree on me just watching which has always been my preference, until she wants me to join them.
I wouldn’t let her meet someone without me either present or close by. She wouldn’t feel safe anyway and her feeling safe is important to us both.
I have told her that my perfect fantasy is to step out for some time and walk back in to find them at least making out or performing oral. She agrees as long as she knows I’m just a few steps away from her.
We also agree on me just watching which has always been my preference, until she wants me to join them.