So my GF is usually quite dismissive about most things sexual. Definitely on the reserved side (Lack of sexual experience). I am far wilder and have some crazy fantasies. She always turns them down and basically never likes to discuss sex. She travels a lot so we have to try and spice it up and at least discuss things once in a while.
Well the other day we started discussing fantasies (She doesn't really have any and mine mostly ones with another person. She quickly turns them down) and I brought up a picture of a pornhub search result for females (She isn't into porn). Well big black dick was on there. Her first response was "its not really a surprise I don't like black dick" so I let it go and then revisted the topic later. She later said she is "very unattracted to black dick" but she normally is somewhat open to possibly finding pics of like new or different or wilder sex positions so I told her I had some of those. I then gave her the option to stick with this topic or switch to another. Much to my surprise she then continued on with "tell me your black dick fantasy" and I wanted to go slow so I just told her I wanted to see her find a couple pics that are hot...
Well she was a champ. She ended up searching "black dick & black dick/white women" and found a couple pics she sent me. I sent her a few where the sex position was different and she seemed to get into it a bit more even though she said she felt uncomfortable. She found a couple more and sent them to me. All in all she sent like 6-8 pics! She said it was a little much though after the fact.
She then said the next day that she definitely was not into it (But to be fair she dismisses most things sexual very quickly). She said she liked some of the positions but that she just doesn't like black dick. I am happy she at least tried to partly enjoy my fantasy and hopefully this can be a little start of planting the seed...
I'd love to hear more advice if anybody has any to comment!
Well the other day we started discussing fantasies (She doesn't really have any and mine mostly ones with another person. She quickly turns them down) and I brought up a picture of a pornhub search result for females (She isn't into porn). Well big black dick was on there. Her first response was "its not really a surprise I don't like black dick" so I let it go and then revisted the topic later. She later said she is "very unattracted to black dick" but she normally is somewhat open to possibly finding pics of like new or different or wilder sex positions so I told her I had some of those. I then gave her the option to stick with this topic or switch to another. Much to my surprise she then continued on with "tell me your black dick fantasy" and I wanted to go slow so I just told her I wanted to see her find a couple pics that are hot...
Well she was a champ. She ended up searching "black dick & black dick/white women" and found a couple pics she sent me. I sent her a few where the sex position was different and she seemed to get into it a bit more even though she said she felt uncomfortable. She found a couple more and sent them to me. All in all she sent like 6-8 pics! She said it was a little much though after the fact.
She then said the next day that she definitely was not into it (But to be fair she dismisses most things sexual very quickly). She said she liked some of the positions but that she just doesn't like black dick. I am happy she at least tried to partly enjoy my fantasy and hopefully this can be a little start of planting the seed...
I'd love to hear more advice if anybody has any to comment!