First conversation with GF about Black Dick

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So my GF is usually quite dismissive about most things sexual. Definitely on the reserved side (Lack of sexual experience). I am far wilder and have some crazy fantasies. She always turns them down and basically never likes to discuss sex. She travels a lot so we have to try and spice it up and at least discuss things once in a while.

Well the other day we started discussing fantasies (She doesn't really have any and mine mostly ones with another person. She quickly turns them down) and I brought up a picture of a pornhub search result for females (She isn't into porn). Well big black dick was on there. Her first response was "its not really a surprise I don't like black dick" so I let it go and then revisted the topic later. She later said she is "very unattracted to black dick" but she normally is somewhat open to possibly finding pics of like new or different or wilder sex positions so I told her I had some of those. I then gave her the option to stick with this topic or switch to another. Much to my surprise she then continued on with "tell me your black dick fantasy" and I wanted to go slow so I just told her I wanted to see her find a couple pics that are hot...

Well she was a champ. She ended up searching "black dick & black dick/white women" and found a couple pics she sent me. I sent her a few where the sex position was different and she seemed to get into it a bit more even though she said she felt uncomfortable. She found a couple more and sent them to me. All in all she sent like 6-8 pics! She said it was a little much though after the fact.

She then said the next day that she definitely was not into it (But to be fair she dismisses most things sexual very quickly). She said she liked some of the positions but that she just doesn't like black dick. I am happy she at least tried to partly enjoy my fantasy and hopefully this can be a little start of planting the seed...

I'd love to hear more advice if anybody has any to comment!
 
It’s been about a month now and a quick little update.. Played with the new fantasy a couple more times and she is opening up. Although she still says she doesn’t like to look at BBCs sometimes still...

But the other night I had her take her new fantasy and tease me with it so she would be in control. She got completely into it so it seemed!! It was so hot. Because the way the situation played out I was even able to ask her if she would suck one if I ever wanted her to and she wanted to! To my surprised she answered “Of course I would!!” and “heck yes anything for you”... I was completely shocked and incredibly turned on. I continued to push it a little but told I wouldn’t want her to fuck one! I asked her as I was about to cum what kind of girl she was and for what! She immediately replied back more than once “A slutty girl for the big black cock”. I was in heaven!

The next day we were talking and I asked for her feedback and she said she wouldn’t want to do it all the time (The fantasy situation of her teasing me) but was certainly into it. I asked her what her favorite part was and she said “sucking the cock.”

I didn’t want to push it to far too fast so I let it be so it could sink into a little bit! Left me feeling even hornier as I was unsure if she was just playing to the fantasy or in reality is coming around... But definitely feel like in making slow progress on her and it’s becoming a more regular thing. At least a couple times a week of pushing the limits of the fantasy!
 
You are definitely on the right, not too pushy and respecting heir apparent boundaries. And yes, the idea is sinking slowly deep inside her mind. My suggestion, give her a one- or 2-week break with the fantasy and then propose her to watch and discover together a video that a colleague’s girlfriend really likes. Bear in mind that it should be a video where the Black guy has a big one (bigger than yours), and where the girl looks like your girlfriend and you can see she is really enjoying the moment. If she agrees to watch it, I promise you’d have scored big.

If you need suggestions about good video links of the suggested kind, hit me here in this post or privately.

Good luck with your quest to fulfill your fantasy and make your gf discover her wilder and slutty side at every naughty time.
 
It might be too good to true. Certainly could be. But maybe she is actually opening up to the idea the more we play and push the limits with it!

She has always been a bit conservative but even with this fantasy I’ve given her the option to switch it to something else but she really hasn’t even tried.... So who knows what that really means! But the journey is certainly fun as it’s progressed...

She is away a lot so we have to sext quite often to keep it spicy. She has been more open as of recent. Like I said this has only been ongoing for about a month but the seed has been planted at least!!!

The real question is what’s next...
 
So my GF is usually quite dismissive about most things sexual. Definitely on the reserved side (Lack of sexual experience). I am far wilder and have some crazy fantasies. She always turns them down and basically never likes to discuss sex. She travels a lot so we have to try and spice it up and at least discuss things once in a while.

Well the other day we started discussing fantasies (She doesn't really have any and mine mostly ones with another person. She quickly turns them down) and I brought up a picture of a pornhub search result for females (She isn't into porn). Well big black dick was on there. Her first response was "its not really a surprise I don't like black dick" so I let it go and then revisted the topic later. She later said she is "very unattracted to black dick" but she normally is somewhat open to possibly finding pics of like new or different or wilder sex positions so I told her I had some of those. I then gave her the option to stick with this topic or switch to another. Much to my surprise she then continued on with "tell me your black dick fantasy" and I wanted to go slow so I just told her I wanted to see her find a couple pics that are hot...

Well she was a champ. She ended up searching "black dick & black dick/white women" and found a couple pics she sent me. I sent her a few where the sex position was different and she seemed to get into it a bit more even though she said she felt uncomfortable. She found a couple more and sent them to me. All in all she sent like 6-8 pics! She said it was a little much though after the fact.

She then said the next day that she definitely was not into it (But to be fair she dismisses most things sexual very quickly). She said she liked some of the positions but that she just doesn't like black dick. I am happy she at least tried to partly enjoy my fantasy and hopefully this can be a little start of planting the seed...

I'd love to hear more advice if anybody has any to comment!
Show else the pics she sent you
 
I wish there was an easier way to start to the conversation. I am pulling for you. Imagine how amazing it is going to be. I frankly can’t imagine getting a cake or BBC and eating it to
 
Maybe she will send you something like this

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You've gotten over a huge hurdle. Hope it happens for you.
Do you two use toys? Dildo?

Yes. We have just started using them.. I got her a BBC dildo kind of secretly and we used it 2 days in a row before she left to travel for a bit. She hasn’t had it inside her yet though... That’s the next step


Nothing else too wild to report back yet. Just some more fun playtime! Everytime has had BBC discussed/used in it. Unfortunately I think I brought it up almost everytime so far
 
Yes. We have just started using them.. I got her a BBC dildo kind of secretly and we used it 2 days in a row before she left to travel for a bit. She hasn’t had it inside her yet though... That’s the next step


Nothing else too wild to report back yet. Just some more fun playtime! Everytime has had BBC discussed/used in it. Unfortunately I think I brought it up almost everytime so far

Good luck, hopefully someday when she's traveling a guy will send you this from her cellphone.

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I was in the EXACT same situation with my younger wife. Sheltered life but very sexual. Interracial just wasn’t accepted where she came from and she always said she had zero interest. I started sending her random pics and would slide in a hot hung black guy occasionally. She still said no. I held up a pic on my phone of a very muscular and good looking black guy with a very big cock. She stared for several seconds and had a grin on her face. Game over. She is absolutely obsessed with BBC right now and we talk about setting her up. Almost had a hookup fairly close to us. Very good looking, great shape and hung. Lost contact on kik unfortunately. Still looking.
 
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