to add my feelings to this as of lately, she definitely loves me. I don't turn her on any more. I don't have access to eat her out or make her cum whenever any more. That's her b/f's jobs. she lets me cum once a week, but we love each other, help each other out and live together just fine. she doesn't get wet with me at all. if we should have sex, I have to add tons of lube, and turn myself on, she won't blow me, or suck on my nipples. she won't let me eat her ass at night. though, she never really liked that from me, she lets her b/f's do it, and she cums from that alone. I joke and tell her, those are Jobs for real men, and she laughs, but she doesn't deny them. lol. we are the happiest we've ever been, and she's sexually satisfied which is probably the first time, in our time together, over 12 year.s that makes me extremely happy.