I can only speak for myself and our marriage.
Except for a 2 year hiatus during Covid, my Hotwife has been actively enjoying sex with several other men (mostly black) in the 9 years since our wedding. In fact, she was fucking other men and women all throughout our engagement. I have been fully supportive from day 1.
Although she gets the vast majority of her sexual satisfaction from others, her love for me has never wavered. We love each other on a deep emotional level despite the fact that her bareback lovemaking is reserved exclusively for her black bulls.
It works out well for her bulls as well. They have no interest in developing a serious committed emotional relationship with my wife. She satisfies their sexual needs in every conceivable way so they are happy.
I get off knowing that my wife is always sexually satisfied when she comes home from her bareback dates. After cream pie duty is completed, I love being her submissive cuckold and strap-on sissy.
I must agree with the above, We found when we were younger, ( Late 20,s/Early 30,s ).
That We both enjoyed firstly swapping with friendly neighbours.
However We discovered that what ( Mainly Guys ) thought was a good idea at the time , turned into a problem after.
Always it was the guys not the Wives !!!
So as We still enjoyed sex with other people, We started swinging in clubs, which in our day were just starting to develop, We both had our share of partners, but all white.
We both also saw other men ( Her) and other Women ( Me).
However the best sex was between us after either of us had been out on our own.
Now We always promised each other We would tell each other ( About our independent meetings during our sex together ) This used to turn us both on while fucking.
Now I loved watching Her when at a swap club, She was always a popular lady, and very well put together, also fearless and a submissive exhibitionist to boot.
She never minded people watching Her as She had all Her openings filled with at the time white cock.
This all changed when She was DP,d a swingers party by two very well endowed black guys, at the age of 48.
She enjoyed it so much, that after the only white guy She had was Me.
For the next 10 years or so, She was exclusively Black Cock only, indisposed with some Woman to Woman adventures, arranged by Her Black Boyfriend.
She decided that She only wanted to have sex with Me only aged 62/63, and Has never gone back to our old lifestyle.
Now both of us are to old anyway.
We both still love each other dearly, and when She stopped, She was emphatic that any images or videos of Her or both of us in action were destroyed.
She was a bit paranoid of our Children or Granchildren finding out about our previous lifestyle.
Good while it lasted though.