Do you keep your lifestyle a secret?

[HtxStick007]

We don't hide our lifestyle and we don't publicize it either. Our family doesn't know and we like it that way. Our neighbors might know because of friends coming and going at different times. If someone finds out oh well no worries. We aren't ashamed of how we live but we aren't going to broadcast it either.

lol im sure they hear all the commotion if you and a bull are having a little play time

 

[housewifenheat]

lol im sure they hear all the commotion if you and a bull are having a little play time

I wouldn't doubt that. I can get pretty loud. lol

 

[Ezekiel]

My wife is totally paranoid that our sons may somehow find out so she goes to pretty great lengths to keep her play secret! No one we know has a clue to our knowledge. She dates her regulars and longer term guys in a city 3 hours from us and was/is a nurse so we tell everyone she is doing volunteer work! EVERYTHING she does is damn sure voluntary! She has spent almost every weekend for the last couple years with her young BF and has traveled some with him also! When she gets horny mid week or needs and ego bump, we do hotel bar pickups across the city from us or she goes to a predominantly black clientele gym for a mid morning tryst. It is all wonderful and not really that difficult to hide! No one here would suspect the levels of Miss Goody Goody's depraved cravings! Makes it more exciting for us!

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

I keep the lifestyle to myself and thats the best approach for me.

Same here.

 

[polynibrium]

Does your friends and or family know that you're involved in this particular lifestyle? Everytime I hear someone talk about it they claim its weird and or lame. Im the only one in my family that's interested in this so im extremely discreet.

Only my best friend knows - she is also the keyholder to my husband’s cockcage. She’s someone I can trust 100%. Other than that we are extremely discreet about it. And somehow we believe what we do is even hotter, if it remains our kinky little secret.

 

[SubAly]

I keep it close to my chest all 32ff of it. Only travel to meet black dom

 

[blackdonjuan]

Only a handful of friends know what I do.

But somebody always has to go ruin things.
So now I really have to move different.

To the ones who put themselves out there face included I salute you all.

 

[tomtomjim]

we kept it quiet but i wonder how many people know , we live in a small city and my wife has had many men and picked a few up in the local club. When i became a cuckold i accepted that people would know , one good thing about sucking a guys cock is that he is less likely to tell others except ones who want theirs sucked

 

[Kycouple40s]

Discretion is a must for us. Too many judge mental people.

 

[billy2019]

It’s private between cucky and I. Two reasons really: it’s sexier to have naughty little secrets only we know, and I don’t want anyone who doesn’t understand judging him.

i agree. secretiveness is sexy to begin with.

 

[mrscondo]

I kept it very secret. When ex found out, we divorced. Part of a very generous settlement I had to agree to was him keeping his mouth shut or he forfeited any money paid.

 

[FEROSFERIO]

We stay discreet because we like our privacy. That said, if my wife wants to share with a close friend or two I have no objection. Honestly I think we don’t want people to judge us or react badly so we don’t talk about it. What we think of as fun and not a big deal, to other people this kind of modern view of sex is uncomfortable.

 

[Loylty4Roylty]

Does your friends and or family know that you're involved in this particular lifestyle? Everytime I hear someone talk about it they claim its weird and or lame. Im the only one in my family that's interested in this so im extremely discreet.

Honestly, it's a need to know basis. I am open as I can be, but lots of folks expect discretion and that should be respected. I am always happy to explain why serving the BBC is essential to society. Nia

 

[newcuckcplpa]

We are discreet. Between family and careers Too many people wouldn’t understand all of this

 

[3waypleasure]

We don't hide it, but don't publicize it either. Some of our friends know we are swingers. I'm sure the neighbors notice the traffic at our house, but nobody has mentioned it or asked questions.

 

[ann-mwf]

Has to be kept a secret as I would die if my *******, or indeed anyone else in our small community, found out.

 

[newcuckcplpa]

Agree Ann

 

[Easygliderpro]

For those who are keeping it secret, is it long or short term?

 

[Bigfunfun]

Does your friends and or family know that you're involved in this particular lifestyle? Everytime I hear someone talk about it they claim its weird and or lame. Im the only one in my family that's interested in this so im extremely discreet.

Same here so best to keep our lifestyle away from family and friends but a lot of the friends of the black bulls know about my wife and my wife’s very ok with but that way.

 

[Xxxpiperxx]

As someone else has said....those that are open especially wives/cucks I salute you....but I would always keep this lifestyle private....its awkward for anyone to be open with it....I think the wives have it the easiest as far as someone finding out because it was hobbies idea and he does share you....and for the guy that was outed by his ex, you are a tough cookie and I'm happy you got through that whole thing.