Do you keep your lifestyle a secret?

[WICPL4BBC]

Yeah, divorce can get pretty ugly. Not only you are carving up assets, money etc. friends and family seem to become become prized assets or collateral damage that you also want to keep after the dust settles. I'm still friends with most, but the fact they know all this about still pisses me off.
Once we divorced, she fucked half of the city, so most friends knew or realised was in her anyway, plus she always was a cocktease and loved to dress slutty... they just didn't know mild mannered Clark Kent was actually a willing cuckold. That was the bit I was hoping to keep a secret

You could always says you just watched her have sex due to her Herpes......

 

[Kivi003]

Yeah, divorce can get pretty ugly. Not only you are carving up assets, money etc. friends and family seem to become become prized assets or collateral damage that you also want to keep after the dust settles. I'm still friends with most, but the fact they know all this about still pisses me off.
Once we divorced, she fucked half of the city, so most friends knew or realised was in her anyway, plus she always was a cocktease and loved to dress slutty... they just didn't know mild mannered Clark Kent was actually a willing cuckold. That was the bit I was hoping to keep a secret

well, important thing is its all in the past. i mean sure you are a cuckold some people know. dont let that get to you. you have a beautiful wife now who cuckolds and loves you now and by all things as i see you have nice life. focus on that. past is the past.

 

[littledikk]

Yeah, divorce can get pretty ugly. Not only you are carving up assets, money etc. friends and family seem to become become prized assets or collateral damage that you also want to keep after the dust settles. I'm still friends with most, but the fact they know all this about still pisses me off.
Once we divorced, she fucked half of the city, so most friends knew or realised was in her anyway, plus she always was a cocktease and loved to dress slutty... they just didn't know mild mannered Clark Kent was actually a willing cuckold. That was the bit I was hoping to keep a secret

I was duped by first wife I was working very long hours poor money situation poor sex most days due to fatigue from hours of work and travelling.
said she needed space blah blah etc.
Being a mug I agreed did not contest and said breakdown my fault.
paid equity out etc,
2 years after divorce her best friend told me she had been fucking her boss in our house for 2 years.
She especially instigated sex after he fucked to get me to fuck her and the get me to lick her clean by saying EAT MY LOVERS COME BABY.
thinking she meant mine used to ravage her with my mouth
like you would have loved it if she had said
upshot is she moved with hi 3 months after we split long before divodce was settled

 

[theQuiksta]

Umm, yeah

 

[slinky1]

well, important thing is its all in the past. i mean sure you are a cuckold some people know. dont let that get to you. you have a beautiful wife now who cuckolds and loves you now and by all things as i see you have nice life. focus on that. past is the past.

Absolutely. My current wife just hates that people know about my past life, as they will naturally assume she cuckolds me as well. They may not guess, but figure they probably do we still live a cuckold/ hotwife lifestyle. So for my current wife, sort of guilt by association.
Shits me a little about them knowing about me being submissively bi, and my small cock as well, I was the butt of a few jokes for a while at parties/ bbq's, most have moved on an not mentioned it, but I didn't enjoy that either at the time.

 

[Kivi003]

Absolutely. My current wife just hates that people know about my past life, as they will naturally assume she cuckolds me as well. They may not guess, but figure they probably do we still live a cuckold/ hotwife lifestyle. So for my current wife, sort of guilt by association.
Shits me a little about them knowing about me being submissively bi, and my small cock as well, I was the butt of a few jokes for a while at parties/ bbq's, most have moved on an not mentioned it, but I didn't enjoy that either at the time.

i can imagine how that feels. thats bad man, i am sorry you have gone trough it and are still going trough it. but luckily youarent alone. you wife should be your biggest support and the way i see it she is.

 

[rocknrobin007]

Robin n I live our IR lifestyle openly and honestly...we are proud to be living the lifestyle that we love so much. Robin wears her QoS tats above her ankles to be seen by all and she often can be seen in public places with black men with no concerns about who may see her. Most of our close friends know about the lifestyle we live and none really seem to have any real opinion about it since they are not involved. We have a small family and so far only her sister and bro in law know and we are not close with them...they dont approve and we really dont care. IR is the life we live....the life we love and we dont concern ourselves on how others may view it.

 

[Dblinsey]

Hi,

Only myself and my hubby knows. Go to great lengths to keep it that way too!

 

[CuckoldCouple]

Complete discretion is a must. Even though we live in a large city, we are extremely careful and now only meet with a very few men we know we can trust.

 

[MistressAria]

Well, my mom in-law found out and somewhat guessed it anyway but we managed to prevent my own mom finding out, which would've been hard on her and myself.

Exactly. My cuckold has some public profile too, so I simply culd never do it to him.

 

[slinky1]

Exactly. My cuckold has some public profile too, so I simply culd never do it to him.

Yeah, my ex-wife had some genuine mental health issues, plus if she got *******, on top of her medication, she just had no filter at all... whether that was talking too much, flirting too much or constantly seeking random sexual experiences. She said way too many things, to too way many people. She geniunely regretted it all later, telling everyone about us, but once said, it couldn't be taken back.

 

[Wifelovesbbc10]

Only one other cpl knows what we do.... Because we cought them one night by accident.... We just played stupid...lol

 

[Upstater]

My neighbors know from seeing so many bulls visiting for a night or weekend or longer and so friends have seen me out in clubs with bulls.

 

[berna35]

No one knows. We cant risk it

 

[MWC43-41]

Does your friends and or family know that you're involved in this particular lifestyle? Everytime I hear someone talk about it they claim its weird and or lame. Im the only one in my family that's interested in this so im extremely discreet.

In our circle just a simple 3some would be enough to ruin us with most family members, so what we do in this area is certainly PRIVATE! Unless a person is DIRECTLY involved we never breathe a word about this. It's our business and we intend to keep it that way.

 

[KinkyMACouple]

My two best friends know but not every dirty detail. Unless my husband told his friends no one else knows

 

[geoffrya]

Does your friends and or family know that you're involved in this particular lifestyle? Everytime I hear someone talk about it they claim its weird and or lame. Im the only one in my family that's interested in this so im extremely discreet.

for years I did everything to try keep it secret yes.... but when you give your wife a free hand to fuck who she wants you have to expect they then have no worries in you finding out !!! when they are cheating they are much more careful
the truth is they have a free hand and start being more open,,,,,,,,,,,,as time goes by they become more and more less careful who knows until in the end it gets around
initially when she left house we would be discrete, and even more discrete when she is being dropped off in the early hours
we all know its risky who sees her with other men especially black guys
im sure now 36 yrs of us having this lifestyle there are very few who don't know and realise

 

[HtxStick007]

for years I did everything to try keep it secret yes.... but when you give your wife a free hand to fuck who she wants you have to expect they then have no worries in you finding out !!! when they are cheating they are much more careful
the truth is they have a free hand and start being more open,,,,,,,,,,,,as time goes by they become more and more less careful who knows until in the end it gets around
initially when she left house we would be discrete, and even more discrete when she is being dropped off in the early hours
we all know its risky who sees her with other men especially black guys
im sure now 36 yrs of us having this lifestyle there are very few who don't know and realise

Im discreet right now and im probably the only one in my family that's into this lifestyle. I think they'd be appalled if they found out. I hide apps, pics and everything.

 

[Wanabecuck1985]

her name is a secret to be kept as hubby has know ideaView attachment 2846872View attachment 2846873View attachment 2847258

Lucky hubby!

 

[housewifenheat]

We don't hide our lifestyle and we don't publicize it either. Our family doesn't know and we like it that way. Our neighbors might know because of friends coming and going at different times. If someone finds out oh well no worries. We aren't ashamed of how we live but we aren't going to broadcast it either.