Love this thread! The public displays are such an important part of the lifestyle for us, and it’s fun to see how many couples have similar feeling/experiences. Like so many of you, we play a fair distance from home (we live in the outer suburbs and play in the city or on vacation) so that we feel free to flaunt in public without it affecting our careers or relationships with family and friends.
Whenever we meet a bull in public, my husband and I enter together, arm-in-arm, wedding rings on, clearly together. If I’m meeting a familiar bull, I’ll break free from my husband and kiss and embrace my bull, then take my place at his side (for example, if he’s seated I’ll sit on his side of the table or booth and my husband on the other) or we’ll hit the dance floor together and leave my husband behind to watch. If it’s someone new, I’ll have my husband show me off and present me to him with a little twirl and then take his side. It makes the “handoff” that much more obvious, and that exhibitionism is such a thrill. You see the looks from other people that ranges from shocked and incredulous to a knowing wink or smile, but people can’t tear their eyes away. As someone who is somewhat of an introvert, it’s a thrill to explore this side of myself where I enjoy being put on display. Put me in a tight dress and stilettos with my hair and makeup done especially for my date and I transform into an attention whore.
I don’t usually get too raunchy in public, but lots of kissing, hugging, touching, and if we’re dancing will include some ass-grabbing and grinding. If we need to walk down a crowded street to go somewhere private, my bull and I will walk with our arms around each other and my head on his shoulder, maybe stop here and there for a deep kiss, while holding my husband’s hand on the other side.