We like to be a bit subtle about the fact that when my lover meets up with my husband and I, the minute he shows up, the dynamic changes and my husband knows I will belong to a real man for the eve.
My husband and I were in the city for apps and cocktails at a nice place.
It is summer, so I have a nice sun dress on with heels. I'm wearing one of my queen of spades thongs. I will also have a temp queen of spades tattoo somewhere that is both discreet but can be seen.
My older friend aka lover aka shows up, walks over to us, greets us, give me a kiss on the lips and happens to brush his hand on the back of my sundress. We are at a hightop table at a bar. The other people at the tables see this. Again, subtle enough for others to be intrigued.
After a ******* or two and time passes, My lover has his arms around me, kisses me while we wait for drinks, he feels my behind. He says things loudly enough so people may hear.. People are looking. All three of us love the excitement.
Long story short as I now have zoom meeting for work.... ...sorry...
While waitress comes over to give the bill, my husband takes out his wallet to give her a credit card, but he takes out the hotel card it to give to my lover, says to him in front of the waitress, "I got you guys a great room with a view have fun with her. Text me pictures pease."
Subtle yet owned.