Black breeding and the limits of consent

[elizeFr]

Very well said, smart and subtle as always, thank you so much Monica, it’s impressive how how you success to describe complex feelings !

 

[MonicaV]

However, as wfEmily pointed out, the impact on both the extended family (parents, siblings, etc) and immediate family (the couple’s own children) can never be discounted. Add to that outsider’s reaction (co-workers, friends, etc) and the pressure would probably be intense. Of course, this applies almost exclusively to white women married to white men.

It is not only the social implications of having a baby that is not obviously of your husband. At least in my country there are strict laws of fatherhood. An DNA report is enough to ******* a guy to transfer the third part of his salary monthly to the mom for the baby's care, even if she lied him saying she was on the pill.

Even being a massive turn on, it should remain as a fantasy.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Since the begining of times, before the invention of contraceptives, men have sought more activelly sex than women because for them it doesn't imply the same risks (pregnancy) and because would not bring the same consequences for their reputation (slut shaming).

Many white men don't like to use condoms because intercourse is not so pleasant and tend to underestimate these risks. I don't think it's because they really want to impregnate their sexual partners. However, I did perceive this desire intensely in the black men I had sex with, and I think it comes from sociocultural factors.

As you say, a married white woman of middle class is the epitome of social respectability. Sex with her allows the bull to outwit the husband, guardian of her virtue. But the bull does not only find pleasure in using her body, but in desecrating the bedroom. This has been the paradox of the sexual predator: he increases his reputation by degrading his sexual partner, and she accepts this sacrifice in exchange for his superior manhood.

I like your writing style but half the time I'm not sure if this is fan fiction or fantasy or what lol.
When you say many white men are you referring to many white men you've slept with? I know a lot of the white guys that I'm friends with absolutely use condoms, in fact, more white man seem to be responsible with condom use than black guys that I know.

The only thing that makes me Pause is your depiction of black men. It seems in your experience, black men are borderline animals. you use terms like sexual predators and whatnot. You even flirt with the idea of ****** and R*pe, which are dangerous connotations in this Day and Age. But all black men are not like that. In fact, MOST black men aren't like that.

That's more the white person hyper-perception of black men.

Furthermore, A black man sexual prowess does not have to equal being a sexual deviant. Some of us are just damn good lovers

But I get it... This is a specific website, bordering on porn fantasy... and most of the white women on here have very limited experience with black men outside of cuckolding or hotwifing. So I totally get it. I'm not stepping on anyone's personal experience.

I'm just woke as fuck and I pay attention to words. There are too many people on here who will read your stuff and take it as gospel truth and that will be their Truth.. and they would carry that perception of black men in their mind, especially sexually.

All that being said, I'll still continue reading your stuff

 

[moojoman]

Which stud did the deed. ? Oh. She doesn't know because she had them all.

I have to admit as a white male I find the black breeding of white women to be a very erotic turn on. It taps into our most primal human instincts. The fact that white women, by natural selection, are choosing to procreate with black men due to the perceived greater virility and sexual potency (not to mention bigger cock size) is very sexually stimulating to many white women and men

 

[Dblinsey]

I like your writing style but half the time I'm not sure if this is fan fiction or fantasy or what lol.
When you say many white men are you referring to many white men you've slept with? I know a lot of the white guys that I'm friends with absolutely use condoms, in fact, more white man seem to be responsible with condom use than black guys that I know.

The only thing that makes me Pause is your depiction of black men. It seems in your experience, black men are borderline animals. you use terms like sexual predators and whatnot. You even flirt with the idea of ****** and R*pe, which are dangerous connotations in this Day and Age. But all black men are not like that. In fact, MOST black men aren't like that.

That's more the white person hyper-perception of black men.

Furthermore, A black man sexual prowess does not have to equal being a sexual deviant. Some of us are just damn good lovers

But I get it... This is a specific website, bordering on porn fantasy... and most of the white women on here have very limited experience with black men outside of cuckolding or hotwifing. So I totally get it. I'm not stepping on anyone's personal experience.

I'm just woke as fuck and I pay attention to words. There are too many people on here who will read your stuff and take it as gospel truth and that will be their Truth.. and they would carry that perception of black men in their mind, especially sexually.

All that being said, I'll still continue reading your stuff

BBCnATX,

I too love her writing style, and will continue to read her posts. However, I think I'll disagree with the 'fan fiction or fantasy' comment.

I've come to the conclusion that, for lack of a better description, this lifestyle is more of a fetish than anything else. There are countless similar blogs that focus on other interests; BDSM, Husband Humiliation, General Open Swinging (regardless of who the partners are), Dressing Like Animals, and countless others. This is but one of them.

As with other 'interests', some people dip their toes into it, others consider it an interesting way to spice up a relationship, or still others who delve into it completely, letting it become an essential part of their lives. I would say that Monica V falls into the latter category while I tend to regard it as an interesting way to spice up a relationship. I enjoy it, but don't NEED it.

Along with degree of participation, some people simply like the idea of the taboo or other aspects, while others embrace the 'thug' aspect; being taken, used, totally dominated. So, you could have someone like myself who regards it as a way to spice up a relationship, but not interested in the 'thug' aspects. It's all levels of degrees.

I have been messaged by wonderful men who I would like to experience. Conversely, I have also been messaged by guys who are best described as 'brutish'. Not my cup of tea at all.

What I'm trying to say is that when an individual (either a man or woman) indicates a desire, and possibly a belief like Monica has, you can either endorse her philosophy or reject it. It's her right to express it, just as it's your right to reject it.

I've said before in other posts that I don't necessarily agree with what Monica has to say, but I appreciate her beliefs and, to a large degree understand her outlook. Putting it bluntly, without self-restraint, I could easily evolve into her lifestyle, but choose not to.

In conclusion, I'm not condemning you in the least BBCnATX! Far from it. I'm simply suggesting that her perceptions are valid, just like yours are. Hell, if anything, we're all in violent agreement here!

 

[MagicMikeATX]

BBCnATX,

I too love her writing style, and will continue to read her posts. However, I think I'll disagree with the 'fan fiction or fantasy' comment.

I've come to the conclusion that, for lack of a better description, this lifestyle is more of a fetish than anything else. There are countless similar blogs that focus on other interests; BDSM, Husband Humiliation, General Open Swinging (regardless of who the partners are), Dressing Like Animals, and countless others. This is but one of them.

As with other 'interests', some people dip their toes into it, others consider it an interesting way to spice up a relationship, or still others who delve into it completely, letting it become an essential part of their lives. I would say that Monica V falls into the latter category while I tend to regard it as an interesting way to spice up a relationship. I enjoy it, but don't NEED it.

Along with degree of participation, some people simply like the idea of the taboo or other aspects, while others embrace the 'thug' aspect; being taken, used, totally dominated. So, you could have someone like myself who regards it as a way to spice up a relationship, but not interested in the 'thug' aspects. It's all levels of degrees.

I have been messaged by wonderful men who I would like to experience. Conversely, I have also been messaged by guys who are best described as 'brutish'. Not my cup of tea at all.

What I'm trying to say is that when an individual (either a man or woman) indicates a desire, and possibly a belief like Monica has, you can either endorse her philosophy or reject it. It's her right to express it, just as it's your right to reject it.

I've said before in other posts that I don't necessarily agree with what Monica has to say, but I appreciate her beliefs and, to a large degree understand her outlook. Putting it bluntly, without self-restraint, I could easily evolve into her lifestyle, but choose not to.

In conclusion, I'm not condemning you in the least BBCnATX! Far from it. I'm simply suggesting that her perceptions are valid, just like yours are. Hell, if anything, we're all in violent agreement here!

Nothing you said is Incorrect.

I sit here and read DOZENS of posts every day, staying mostly quiet.

Monica is a keen intellect and her words carry a lot of power. If one isn't careful, it becomes too easy to MARGINALIZE black men into certain social political categories (as if we aren't enough!) and there are those here, namely white men, who will gladly take this information as FACTUAL.

I give people the benefit of the doubt. When people post stuff on here, no matter how outrageous, I truly believe that they believe believe in what they're saying... and in some cases, that can be a problem.

Truth is, I'm here for the same reasons as everyone else. The difference is once people start talking about statistics and Analytics and posting figures and data... trying to politicize this Lifestyle, as Monica deftly tends to do, as if this is truth... that's when this can become dangerous.

I absolutely embrace differences . It's unfortunate that my country is still a very racist society. And even though this is a fetish based website, there are REAL people here with very REAL belief systems.

I've dated White women and women of different cultures so...i can relate to the humanity of interracial sex, but still.. I can't help but wonder where is the line between fantasy... And racial beliefs?

 

[Dblinsey]

Nothing you said is Incorrect.

I sit here and read DOZENS of posts every day, staying mostly quiet.

Monica is a keen intellect and her words carry a lot of power. If one isn't careful, it becomes too easy to MARGINALIZE black men into certain social political categories (as if we aren't enough!) and there are those here, namely white men, who will gladly take this information as FACTUAL.

I give people the benefit of the doubt. When people post stuff on here, no matter how outrageous, I truly believe that they believe believe in what they're saying... and in some cases, that can be a problem.

Truth is, I'm here for the same reasons as everyone else. The difference is once people start talking about statistics and Analytics and posting figures and data... trying to politicize this Lifestyle, as Monica deftly tends to do, as if this is truth... that's when this can become dangerous.

I absolutely embrace differences . It's unfortunate that my country is still a very racist society. And even though this is a fetish based website, there are REAL people here with very REAL belief systems.

I've dated White women and women of different cultures so...i can relate to the humanity of interracial sex, but still.. I can't help but wonder where is the line between fantasy... And racial beliefs?

Don't want to get into a 'flame war' here. However (it ALWAYS begins with HOWEVER, doesn't it?) while I believe your observations that a lot of folks take some information as factual, there is nothing we can do about it. How many 'BS Flags' were thrown over the claim that a woman took 13 inches? Or that a penis can enter a cervix? We've all seen them, but they are quickly debunked, and the person who does believe it is probably quickly dissuaded when his wife says "No Way In Hell..."

Fantasy versus Beliefs are always a thin edge to walk. While some totally believe in UFOs, others think it's fantasy. While some totally believe in the occult, others think it's fantasy. While some claim it's possible that a penis can enter a cervix, others know it's fantasy. Nothing you or I can say or do to change what is belief into fantasy - in other words, change someone's belief.

Again, I think that Monica (who started this discussion) experiences are post probably fact. She probably does support her arguements th

 

[Dblinsey]

oops!

As I was saying: She probably does support her arguments and posts them in support of her outlook on life.

It's up to you as to whether or not you accept them. Belief? Fantasy? Only Monica knows for sure. But she is consistent so whose to say?

 

[WillandSusn]

I have to admit as a white male I find the black breeding of white women to be a very erotic turn on. It taps into our most primal human instincts. The fact that white women, by natural selection, are choosing to procreate with black men due to the perceived greater virility and sexual potency (not to mention bigger cock size) is very sexually stimulating to many white women and men

BBC Is always a large part of the desire but the deep down core primal motivation is the black stud ejaculating his sperm deep into her pussy and hopefully her womb to impregnate her. Sex with forbidden cock is always a huge turn on for women but being impregnated goes to the very core of the female existence ... Creating babies. All of this is such a huge turn on for women that they have very strong and profound orgasms which act to bring them back to BBC for more.

 

[Jack Smithers]

My wife is probably not at risk but you never know. For her, she will always take her bull's cum and he knows that her pussy is his to use as he wishes..

 

[WillandSusn]

My wife is probably not at risk but you never know. For her, she will always take her bull's cum and he knows that her pussy is his to use as he wishes..

Men always focus on the BBC but women , by design, are after the sperm/cum. Yes, the BBC gives them wonderous orgasms but its the ejaculated sperm that might make a baby. Even for women unable to conceive, the act of insemination contributes to their core identity and purpose as women and females. They are being what nature created them to be. The orgasms are wonderful but the insemination also strokes their egos as natural females going what is natures plan

 

[MonicaV]

I like your writing style but half the time I'm not sure if this is fan fiction or fantasy or what lol.
When you say many white men are you referring to many white men you've slept with? I know a lot of the white guys that I'm friends with absolutely use condoms, in fact, more white man seem to be responsible with condom use than black guys that I know.

The only thing that makes me Pause is your depiction of black men. It seems in your experience, black men are borderline animals. you use terms like sexual predators and whatnot. You even flirt with the idea of ****** and R*pe, which are dangerous connotations in this Day and Age. But all black men are not like that. In fact, MOST black men aren't like that.

That's more the white person hyper-perception of black men.

Furthermore, A black man sexual prowess does not have to equal being a sexual deviant. Some of us are just damn good lovers

But I get it... This is a specific website, bordering on porn fantasy... and most of the white women on here have very limited experience with black men outside of cuckolding or hotwifing. So I totally get it. I'm not stepping on anyone's personal experience.

I'm just woke as fuck and I pay attention to words. There are too many people on here who will read your stuff and take it as gospel truth and that will be their Truth.. and they would carry that perception of black men in their mind, especially sexually.

All that being said, I'll still continue reading your stuff

All we tend to create rigid norms linking certain sexual traits with human groups, using our own experience, but too many times without a broad statistical base. I'm sorry, I really wish I had fucked with many more black guys to speak properly. hahaha. However, I honestly believe that I use to avoid easy generalizations. Actually, I wrote this about stereotypes:
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/on-kinks-and-identity.123953/

The search engine of this site states that I have used the expression "sexual predators" in these sentences:

"Women by nature find attractive strong, self confident and dominant men. It is a matter of instinct and natural selection. (...) Maybe most of women don't want to live in a world full of sexual predators and macho men, but in sexual terms the criteria use to be clear. If you read fiction written by women and consumed by women this is the classic profile of the male character."

"******* stories about blacks were invented in which they were portrayed as sexual predators, until the face of sexual anxiety acquired a dark color..."

"...almost all of those women I know always negates black men are sexual predators, but, nevertheless, they all assume, in one way or another, that black men are sexually superior."

I don't think these sentences remotely reflect the idea that I do consider black guys "sexual predators", quite the opposite. Regarding the "fan fiction or fantasy" comment... well, I am saying that women have these "crazy" fantasies and they must remain as fantasies. Breeding is not like trying a new sex position, it has dramatic consequences. And of course I don't want to be raped.

My thoughts about thre "****** consent" or the use of the safe word are related with BDSM practices and have nothing to do with race. Are common places in BDSM lifestyle and you will find many writings in fetlife and other sites about them.

 

[jane mintu]

Monica,

I think it would be safe to say that you struck a nerve here!

The act of sex IS the act of procreation, and speaking for myself, impregnation is never far from my mind. I will admit that like a lot of other women commenting in this thread, it’s a major part of the enticement, which probably explains why I’m always mounted bare.

However, as wfEmily pointed out, the impact on both the extended family (parents, siblings, etc) and immediate family (the couple’s own children) can never be discounted. Add to that outsider’s reaction (co-workers, friends, etc) and the pressure would probably be intense. Of course, this applies almost exclusively to white women married to white men.

So again, speaking for myself (and myself alone) I feel that while the concept of being bred may be intensely exciting, perhaps even being role-played between husband, wife and Bull, allowing myself to actually become impregnated is a risk I’m not willing to take.

That being said, thank you for posting the thread, very stimulating to say the least.

nice................

 

[jane mintu]

Men always focus on the BBC but women , by design, are after the sperm/cum. Yes, the BBC gives them wonderous orgasms but its the ejaculated sperm that might make a baby. Even for women unable to conceive, the act of insemination contributes to their core identity and purpose as women and females. They are being what nature created them to be. The orgasms are wonderful but the insemination also strokes their egos as natural females going what is natures plan

I believe you are correct...

 

[jane mintu]

Since the begining of times, before the invention of contraceptives, men have sought more activelly sex than women because for them it doesn't imply the same risks (pregnancy) and because would not bring the same consequences for their reputation (slut shaming).

Many white men don't like to use condoms because intercourse is not so pleasant and tend to underestimate these risks. I don't think it's because they really want to impregnate their sexual partners. However, I did perceive this desire intensely in the black men I had sex with, and I think it comes from sociocultural factors.

As you say, a married white woman of middle class is the epitome of social respectability. Sex with her allows the bull to outwit the husband, guardian of her virtue. But the bull does not only find pleasure in using her body, but in desecrating the bedroom. This has been the paradox of the sexual predator: he increases his reputation by degrading his sexual partner, and she accepts this sacrifice in exchange for his superior manhood.

You have such insight into all of this.............................

 

[jane mintu]

As a white cuck wannabe I find this whole subject of a black man breeding a white man's white wife intoxicating. It is so sexually electric it's difficult to think straight on this subject. Just going by emotion I'd want my partner to be bred by a stronger more dominant black man.

it DOES have a strong effect............

 

[jane mintu]

All we tend to create rigid norms linking certain sexual traits with human groups, using our own experience, but too many times without a broad statistical base. I'm sorry, I really wish I had fucked with many more black guys to speak properly. hahaha. However, I honestly believe that I use to avoid easy generalizations. Actually, I wrote this about stereotypes:
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/on-kinks-and-identity.123953/

The search engine of this site states that I have used the expression "sexual predators" in these sentences:

"Women by nature find attractive strong, self confident and dominant men. It is a matter of instinct and natural selection. (...) Maybe most of women don't want to live in a world full of sexual predators and macho men, but in sexual terms the criteria use to be clear. If you read fiction written by women and consumed by women this is the classic profile of the male character."

"******* stories about blacks were invented in which they were portrayed as sexual predators, until the face of sexual anxiety acquired a dark color..."

"...almost all of those women I know always negates black men are sexual predators, but, nevertheless, they all assume, in one way or another, that black men are sexually superior."

I don't think these sentences remotely reflect the idea that I do consider black guys "sexual predators", quite the opposite. Regarding the "fan fiction or fantasy" comment... well, I am saying that women have these "crazy" fantasies and they must remain as fantasies. Breeding is not like trying a new sex position, it has dramatic consequences. And of course I don't want to be raped.

My thoughts about thre "****** consent" or the use of the safe word are related with BDSM practices and have nothing to do with race. Are common places in BDSM lifestyle and you will find many writings in fetlife and other sites about them.

love your mind!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[jane mintu]

Sex has always been natures way of impregnating women for procreation. Not unusual that most men are "programmed" this way. Sex with white women by black men is not new on planet Earth but white women perhaps are not as focused on the pregnancy part as are the black men. "Sowing " the seed does have some motivations associated with procreation. More pregnant women means more babies. Perpetuating the "seed" is not just true with human males but with males of many species. So there is some "motivating" ******* behind all of this sex.

true

 

[jane mintu]

 

[K&K]

In traditional societies women live under restrictions on their freedom. They do not usually go out alone, never frequent sites of doubtful morality, and always come back home at a “reasonable” time. Of course, sex outside of marriage is always abhorrent. The madonna-whore dichotomy set out that any form of sex taking place outside of marriage only could be *******, depravity or adultery.

Times have changed, virginity is no longer considered a sine qua non, and casual sex became mormal. In some circunstances, this new situation has made difficult to determine ******* in a trial. A woman can accept going to a man’s flat with the idea of romantic vanilla sex in missionary position, just to discover that her sexual partner has something very different in mind, and excitement and frustration make him use physical ******* to make it happen. During the last months many women have climbed aboard the #MeToo bandwagon relating any dismal, sorry, entirely unsatisfactory sexual encounter that took place years ago. The limits of consent are being redefined. However, these situations that takes place in the nobody's land created by modern promiscuity reach the paroxism in the new forms of “unconventional sex”.

It is commonly assumed that, when a Dom/sub relationship is set, the sub has the right to have some limits and the Dom has the right of pushing these limits. That is what all is about: to make a white submissive evolve, accepting thing she would’t even consider in the past. Throughout my short life as “white slut”, many times I have said "no" just minutes before reaching an intense orgasm. But there are different types of "no". For the “definitely no” a safe word may be created to stop whatever the black Dom is doing. However, I am stubborn and for me the safe word is always a challenge: I do not want to pronounce it. If I do, it means a failure. Sometimes I got home after a BDSM session with a bewildering mix of emotions: a disturbing feeling of having been "raped", along with a strange pride of not having uttered the Goddamned word.

Maybe the factor that makes the difference is the sense of loosing control. Physical and sensory restrictions may increase this feeling, but the deepest sense of vulnerability that any woman may have is losing control over her own fertility. The risk of black breeding is a sword of Damocles always hanging over any Queen of Spades. Although I have said thousands of times that a baby is a human being, not a sexual fantasy, sex is so uterly linked with procreation (and the excitement with transgression) that breeding/******* fantasies are one of the most common in this lifestyle.

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I started taking the pill pretty young to control my menstruation, although I also used condoms in casual sex or when I did not trust my sexual partner. When I got married, I continued on the pill until the birth of my second *******. Then, my husband choosed vasectomy and since that moment my scarce sex was “unprotected”. Something that was not a problem until I met an attractive black gym mate.

Sometimes we take a detour and that choice completely changes our lives. I arrived at interracial sex led by quiet, intense anger and I never intended to stay, but I found that this is exactly the place I would feel comfortable in. The first time we were in his bedroom, the order “suck my black cock” blew my mind. Oral sex was always an obsession (sometimes compulsion) for me, as everything about it to me is a massive turn on: the taste, smell, feel, warmth… and I was there, on my knees, sucking a BLACK cock nearly twice the size of my husband’s. I finally got discipline to make real those fantasies and forbidden needs flying through my head like birds in a dark room. His aura of self-confidence, strength, and masculinity was overwhelming but I started to feel really losing control when he guided his huge black dick in between my pussy lips. I trembled when he began to push the head into me and I discovered he was not using a condom.

"Stop... I'm not protected!", I moaned. But he continued to piston a few more inches into me. I protested again, then I begged. It was useless. His strong hands held down mine, I was immobilized under his powerful body. I couldn't help it, I couldn't even speak. I could only moan and push back as he thrust in and out, sinking deeper into my sex until finally his entire dark shaft was filling me completly.

I started to mouth a protest when I felt his huge shaft pushing even deeper. My vagina had adjusted to his huge size and his massive cock was sliding smoothly out. Since that moment, my body betrayed me and my hips began to move against him. I was in love with his large, powerful, forbidden, black penis. Then I felt it. He groaned loudly and shot the first spurt of his semen deep within me. I tried to push him off, with both the feelings of ******* and terror, but it was too late. His hot sperm was literaly filling me.

The most intense orgasm I have ever had hit me as he continued thrusting and all I could do was grab his dark buttocks and pull him into me further. My entire conscience was focused on this pleasure between my legs. It was done. I could never explain this to my husband, I had committed the ultimately treason to him. The black seed poured out of me and down the crack of my ass as he kept spurting. His big dick was stretching my pussy to its limits, something that my husband would never be able to do, and he whispered: "I'm going to come again, should I pull out?"

"No, come inside me. I want to to feel it again". I answered. He smiled, kissed me, and again I felt an incredible load of sperm hitting my cervix which triggered another orgasm. I screamed and clawed at his back. I was letting a black man impregnate me, I had completely submitted to him in every way. Breaking such great taboo made my orgasm indescribably intense.

When he finished I staggered to my feet and the cum ran down the insides of my thighs as I walked. I went to his shower and cleaned up as well as I could. I dressed my dress on and pulled up my panties, but I could feel his cum still leaking from me. Luckily, I had a panty liner in my handbag. On the taxi I kept asking myself how I could have let such a thing happen.

When I got home my hubby was watching TV and I quickly went into the kitchen to prepare dinner. I was terrified that somehow he would smell the black man's scent on me. My husband asked me about the gym and while I chatted with him I could feel the black man's warm cum still leaking from my pussy.

A similar situation repeated twice until I decided to take the pill again. My new black Dom fucked me for a month without suspecting that there was no risk of pregnancy. During those days, sex was especially intense. Now I use to swallow his sperm after a blowjob or I receive it over my face and breasts. However, during this month he insisted on cuming inside me. Finally I had to confess that I was on the pill and he punished me with a good spanking for having lied to him.

This was the time when my crazy fantasies were closer to reality.

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Amazing story. Unfortunately or rather fortunately I have to confess that I am also not able to refuse anything My Master wants. The best is that He does not ever order me anything. He kindly asks and I and husband both want to satisfy Him as good as we can. I am 44 and I decided to resign of contraception when lifestyle is in progress. I am totally addicted to my Master and my husband also. Best regards from Poland!