We have only had one experience that crossed the line of "consent". We met a black male at a small, discreet, no tell motel. Got a room. Wife likes to relax with a ******* and talk a little first. I stepped outside to the soda machine to get a Coke to chase her Crown. Quickly found out the machine was out of order and my only option was a convenience store roughly a 5 minute walk. I stuck my head back in the room and told wife and the guy. Wife replied "we will keep talking and wait on you". I returned back 15-20 minutes later. As I approached the room from at least 20 feet I could hear the wife screaming loudly. I rushed into the room and found wife face down on the bed, half clothed with her skirt pushed up to her waist. The black male was pounding her pussy hard with a 8-9 inch thick cock. She continued to scream but less as the pounding went on. I watched him fuck her for about 20 minutes, then her unloaded in her pussy. He got up, dressed, thanked us and left. I asked wife why they did not wait on me. She replied that she "wanted to". She said that immediately after I left he stood up and grabbed her forcefully and pushed her to her to her knees. He unzipped and shoved his cock in her mouth. He didn't allow her to really suck him, he grabbed the back of her head and began fucking her mouth and throat roughly. She said he quickly got hard, then he again grabbed her and threw her on the bed. He undressed then grabbed her, rolling her over on her stomach. He shoved her skirt up and tore her panties off. I picked them up off the floor and they were in tatters. As soon as her pussy was exposed he got on top of her and began fucking her. She said there was no foreplay, lube. spit or even a finger. He just shoved his cock in her pussy dry and the screaming was from discomfort.