I agree 100% that what begins as mere passion may morph into an emotional connection. The latter is where the trap lay. This is why I talked to my wife about not falling in love with any of the men that fuck her. We both decided that since she just wanted to enjoy being fucked by other men, she would warn other men that if they started to go beyond friends, she would have to stop seeing them. Some men could not resist and tried to develop a loving relationship but she cut them off COLD, which I believe is the only way men realize they better stop. Good that you and your wife talked about what would happen if she became pregnant. I understand your logic about making the commitments while believing you would not have to keep them. Since my wife also has always loved for men to fuck her bareback, I know how exciting it is for a woman to want to be fucked bareback, even at the risk of getting pregnant. If you are like me, you also much preferred men to fuck your wife bareback and were excited by the idea that the man fucking your wife might be fucking his baby into your wife's unprotected married pussy. So we are all responsible for what happens. I agree 100% that you made the right decision, keeping my word was more important than becoming angry and resentful.
My wife may have had other mens babies but she denies it. I suspect that one or more of the babies my wife had, when she was cheating on me and after I found out she was cheating on me and made me her cuckold, were not mine, but my wife insists that I am the ******* of all of her babies. My wife has had sex with 65 other men that she has admitted to, almost all of the other men never used a condom even though she did not use birth control. So, I think the odds are that at least one man must have knocked her up. She says that I am the ******* of all 5 of her babies. We very seldom fucked but when she did want me to fuck her, she always got pregnant after one or two times of me fucking her, having her baby 9 months later. I told her I was amazed that I only had to fuck her once to impregnate her. She said that I must have very potent sperm. I believed her for many years. It took me many years to realize that she was probably already pregnant by some other man. Some of our ******* don't even look much like me. So I think I might have picked up the tab for raising one to three of other mens babies. I am excited and happy by the
idea that I might have raised other mens babies. Of course, I love all of my ******* regardless of who their biological ******* might be. It only matters in a curious and erotic way because I have always loved them all as my own. I would have loved them just as much even if my wife admitted they were another man's baby.