I think public approaches are the future. White ladies or couples should feel comfortable smiling at Black men and prompting their intros. And likewise, Black men should be bold and polite and feel able to walk up to a couple and introduce himself. Congratulate the man on how sexy his girl is and say how he'd really like to spend some time with her/them.
If we were all more bold things would happen more often and we are then helping to normalise this lifestyle.
If we were all more bold things would happen more often and we are then helping to normalise this lifestyle.