Advice from Real Couples - What changed after BBC

Ok so need some advise from real married couples that actually went black. Me and hubby have been talking for a while about it and are finally ready. His idea initially not mine but I cant get it out of my head and want a taste now, lol. So surprised he even thought about this because he was always the jealous type. What changed after you actually went thru with it. I think we found the right guy to do this with but I dont want to ruin my marriage, life, etc.. We have a happy life, both educated professionals with *******.
 
We have done it and things are changing. She used to be black white who cares. Now she's always telling me to find her a black boyfriend. She's even said of we get one she may go black only and I'll be pussy free.
Honestly my wife became addicted loving it and wanting more which was fine with me but she also seems to nit enjoy my size quite as much so now we do other things instead
Is this natural ? How many other white howives become black only with the time ? The primary couple could have many other ways to make love than fucking. Fucking the hotwife is the bull's work. Finding the bull, helping her to prepare for the bull, cleaning is for the cuckold. Everybody can find his pleasure.
 
It does slowly change for both. Unfortunately for me we spilt up shortly after our first time because of discretion issues, well thats the excuse she used. She really wanted to get fucked by another bull but i turned him down because he wanted to have his way and fuck her raw and do whatever. We were still new to the idea do i wasnt ready for that. But when i look back I regret not getting her what shw wanted
 
My advice is that she needs to already have the mentality, she needs to be really good looking and "hot" because there is a side of confidence she needs to pull it off and she needs to love good sex to even want to go through the trouble. Most women that do well are very good looking, have a good man as a partner and have sex outside of that relationship for only one reason....good sex.
 
I went from thinking my husband might be able to sexually satisfy me occasionally to an irrevocable realisation that he could never sexually satisfy me ever again - and I’d be personally insulted if he thought that (him) was all I deserved.

So, be warned, from my experience at least, it’s very much a one way street.
 
I went from thinking my husband might be able to sexually satisfy me occasionally to an irrevocable realisation that he could never sexually satisfy me ever again - and I’d be personally insulted if he thought that (him) was all I deserved.

So, be warned, from my experience at least, it’s very much a one way street.
Wow, that’s pretty scary and alarming. But it certainly makes you really think
 
Is this natural ? How many other white howives become black only with the time ? The primary couple could have many other ways to make love than fucking. Fucking the hotwife is the bull's work. Finding the bull, helping her to prepare for the bull, cleaning is for the cuckold. Everybody can find his pleasure.
Honestly it feels very natural to me no matter how i consider i imagine sooner orlater i would have always ended up here no matter what.
 
I went from thinking my husband might be able to sexually satisfy me occasionally to an irrevocable realisation that he could never sexually satisfy me ever again - and I’d be personally insulted if he thought that (him) was all I deserved.

So, be warned, from my experience at least, it’s very much a one way street.
Seems like the same thing my wife feels
 
he even thought about this because he was always the jealous type.
Be careful with his offer. I don't know your husband nor your relationship but sometimes a partner may suggest something just to test you. If your husband is the jealous type, why would he suddenly change?
There was a swinger couple we casually met at a party. He suggested going to the party and what to wear. She was dancing provocatively with another man ... and he lost it! WTF! We all thought he was just testing his wife on if she would actually do anything.
 
I went from thinking my husband might be able to sexually satisfy me occasionally to an irrevocable realisation that he could never sexually satisfy me ever again - and I’d be personally insulted if he thought that (him) was all I deserved.

So, be warned, from my experience at least, it’s very much a one way street.
I see ;P How did you approach him about it? Or is he still in the dark about that realisation?
 
My ex got hooked. She wanted more and more. More men.
Like for example finding men online, planning and talking.
It was like foreplay that never ended.

Opening pandoras box is a good description that many use.
It's a good thing. But it has it's bad sides too.

Try it and see what happens to you both.
We only live once
 
My ex got hooked. She wanted more and more. More men.
Like for example finding men online, planning and talking.
It was like foreplay that never ended.

Opening pandoras box is a good description that many use.
It's a good thing. But it has it's bad sides too.

Try it and see what happens to you both.
We only live once
I guess this is a common thing
 
I see ;P How did you approach him about it? Or is he still in the dark about that realisation?
With total honesty. We all have our turn ons, right? It’s human nature. Some people like feet, or leather, or roleplay, or stockings. I like big, thick, throbbing black cocks on muscular domineering alpha males. I like feeling overpowered by them. I like surrendering to them. I like serving them. I like submitting to them. I like obeying them. And I like using all of that to humiliate and degrade my white husband.

Like I said, we all have our turn-ons.

I told my husband all of mine. I said we could carry on with a quite vanilla sex life, both just going through the motions and neither really enjoying it, or he could realise that he turns me on more as a humiliated, powerless, sexless cuckold than he ever could with conventional sex.

Then it was just about finding something within it for him to enjoy within it all too and me doing it for him.

But it all starts with complete candor.
 
My advice is that she needs to already have the mentality, she needs to be really good looking and "hot" because there is a side of confidence she needs to pull it off and she needs to love good sex to even want to go through the trouble. Most women that do well are very good looking, have a good man as a partner and have sex outside of that relationship for only one reason....good sex.
@Craig Rudd you make out that this is for catwalk models and their husbands only. That is crazy! Any woman and any couple can gain from this, if they love eachother and communicate well. The ones you are referring to are those who post pics and videos online, to get attention, and show the world how proud they are of their lifestyle and their body, or partners body. But for every one of these, there are so many more that do it discreetly and never show or tell a sole.
 
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