Pefect approach (also a Stag here)... get her going and it organically grows to a whole new level for everyone and she always gets the mostMy husband (stag, not cuck) instructs the guys very carefully as they look at me all dressed up. Often he tells them something like 'Guys, you are here to serve this wonderful lady. What you do, you do for her. Adapt to whatever happens. If she's enjoying the other guy, find a way to fit in without spoiling their moment. You will have your chance. Spoil her together - not one at a time.'