My wife and I were into the lifestyle for several years, then in 2017 she met a guy she liked and was with him exclusively. I was glad because I felt that there was less chance for disease, etc. She got pregnant and wasn't sure whose baby it was, but sure enough it was her lover's. Their baby is now going on five years old, so it's become normal for us but in the back of my mind I've always wondered if it was truly an accident as she claimed? I suppose it really doesn't matter.