A note to the "Bulls" and Black men on this site

[Hot n Petite]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

We have one account and we both check both reply and chat with others

 

[flyguy90008]

Mike, thank you for continuing to put yourself out there as a mentor to these men. Us real hotwives need more men like you. You are the real deal and you continue to put in so much work for the greater good.

Queen,I thought that was you...Vic from Atlanta "Splash" get in touch

 

[dennyli]

that might because ur hubby is a dipshit

what? and u have small pathethic penis

 

[hood1211]

It really doesn't matter to me bc, I have a fairly short "cut to the chase" script, so when the moment of true comes and it will I will know. I DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY WITHOUT VERIFIED FEEDBACK.

 

[milopetrov]

Very well put as I would assume most guys that are online are looking for a play date for their wife or SO. I'd say look up past chats with the people they've already played with and possibly ask them if they'd recommend them for play....just my 2 cents .

 

[Jacktone]

what? and u have small pathethic penis

How did you get to see this man's penis?

 

[N1CKYKN0B]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Well put! I'm a husband and I get this continually, but I immediately point this out and suggest the person finds out who he's talking to first

 

[DubbteeTX]

Hubby make all contacts to start, the wife reviews with hubby and then we decide. that's how we work

This is almost exactly how we operate. It is always her decision as to who we play with but I (him) do all the talking. Our media is all our own stuff (with some older items from a couple of previous relationships included since we haven't played much in this virus-fucked year). She is the 6th girl I've introduced to the lifestyle and the 4th to BBC.

 

[ThisBull4U]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Right On !! Well said!

 

[Marica]

Hubby make all contacts to start, the wife reviews with hubby and then we decide. that's how we work

I also use this way to find our favorite BBC.

 

[theSeXPlaTonic]

As a rule I don’t initiate contact and have pretty vanilla conversations until there is a connection. My attitude is, it’s nothing until it’s something. Also it shouldn’t take extended conversation to figure out if you want to meet IRL.

 

[blackisdark]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Maybe the site should have a cam chatroom , and you could only enter with cam on ,, and cples profile with both there to get verify

 

[Ineed4more]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

I agree but always let them know i am the male

 

[blackisdark]

We all know we usually talk to the husband , its not rocket science

 

[Dman1992]

i usually can tell with one conversation who is online.
Real bulls understand and kno the reason hubbys do this.
it is cuz they r cucks who love the black dick.
Any way they can talk to a black dick makes them cream in their pants. i mean they give us their pussy cuz they wish they were pussy to give themselves to us.

 

[flexit]

It doesn’t take a mental genius to understand your most likely talking too the husband, just be polite, DONT talk as if you already have things locked up, actually inquire about them, find out what they are seeking (not all couples are the same in what they seek) do your best to establish a connection and go from there....it’s pretty simple, if given the right thought.

 

[Jacktone]

i usually can tell with one conversation who is online.
Real bulls understand and kno the reason hubbys do this.
it is cuz they r cucks who love the black dick.
Any way they can talk to a black dick makes them cream in their pants. i mean they give us their pussy cuz they wish they were pussy to give themselves to us.

Yes you do have a point.


So throw us a bone man.

 

[PrinceHarming™]

Wise words. These facts can never be stated enough.

 

[nobook]

i just wanted to say your post was well spoken and nice to hear

Thank You…….sick of talking to the males. Cheers

 

[bulltoronto]

I always assume its the husband until I know for sure otherwise.