I’ve been online since 97, back then people would type A/S/L. I been tricked several times, now I’ve turned the tables. I’m like Chris Hansen on “How to catch a Predator” I’m like just be honest with your intentions if you are a man, woman, bi, straight or whatever orientation just say so and if it’s not my preference I won’t be rude. It’s just not what I’m into
A note to the "Bulls" and Black men on this site
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I’ve been online since 97, back then people would type A/S/L. I been tricked several times, now I’ve turned the tables. I’m like Chris Hansen on “How to catch a Predator” I’m like just be honest with your intentions if you are a man, woman, bi, straight or whatever orientation just say so and if it’s not my preference I won’t be rude. It’s just not what I’m into
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Verification isn't a sure fire thing either.
We both answer on here , I , the husband do most of the arranging for meetings and parties . My wife will comment , she likes to share her photos and enjoys the comments .
None of them. Isn't honesty is a part of respect. You don't get one without the other
Y'all make this WAY to complicated lol...It's not that hard to screen people and act like respectful adults no isn't
Also mostly Thirsty Guy's fall into the bear trap. Simply take everything with a grain of salt and do meet and greets. SIMPLE K.I.S.S
Also mostly Thirsty Guy's fall into the bear trap. Simply take everything with a grain of salt and do meet and greets. SIMPLE K.I.S.S
I totally agree.
Yep. And that goes for EVERYONE in here.Y'all make this WAY to complicated lol...It's not that hard to screen people and act like respectful adults no isn't
FaxYep. And that goes for EVERYONE in here.
Typically hubby reviews and sends them to kik for me. I have taken a more active role in this forum unlike the other sites we visit looking for playmates. And yes I will tell you if it's me.
But my husband doesn't know about this account!
So if he doesn't know why don't you verify
When I can I will.
To clarify our interactions here.
1- I am a moderator and my husband never uses this feature because he respects my responsibility to everyone here. He could care less.
2- Whenever my husband is going to talk to someone he will let them know in his first message to whomever he starts a conversation with.
3- 99.9% of the time you are conversing with me. I don’t mind anyone at all asking if it’s me or my husband having a conversation with you. Please feel free.
4- me or my husband takes all the pictures of me. Some are older like 5 years and some are a couple weeks old. I have no reason to lie to anyone here. Defeats the purpose.
5- My husband and I have met 3 black guys and none were our cup of tea. We have special circumstances where we rarely get the opportunity to meet someone these days. But the time will come, hopefully sooner rather than later. Plus we know who that person is, and he is a member here. That’s as far into it as we will go. Maybe if we are lucky and we meet with him he will allow us to write about our first time and include some pictures.
To sum up, You are talking to me, I am the wife. My husband does read my conversations because he likes to, and I like the fact he likes to also. I am real in every way and just because I haven’t been with a black guy, yet. Doesn’t mean we won’t. We will but now with COVID-19 it seems like we will all need to be in hazmat suits, as my husband likes to say.
Best wishes to everyone and please by all means, STAY SAFE!
1- I am a moderator and my husband never uses this feature because he respects my responsibility to everyone here. He could care less.
2- Whenever my husband is going to talk to someone he will let them know in his first message to whomever he starts a conversation with.
3- 99.9% of the time you are conversing with me. I don’t mind anyone at all asking if it’s me or my husband having a conversation with you. Please feel free.
4- me or my husband takes all the pictures of me. Some are older like 5 years and some are a couple weeks old. I have no reason to lie to anyone here. Defeats the purpose.
5- My husband and I have met 3 black guys and none were our cup of tea. We have special circumstances where we rarely get the opportunity to meet someone these days. But the time will come, hopefully sooner rather than later. Plus we know who that person is, and he is a member here. That’s as far into it as we will go. Maybe if we are lucky and we meet with him he will allow us to write about our first time and include some pictures.
To sum up, You are talking to me, I am the wife. My husband does read my conversations because he likes to, and I like the fact he likes to also. I am real in every way and just because I haven’t been with a black guy, yet. Doesn’t mean we won’t. We will but now with COVID-19 it seems like we will all need to be in hazmat suits, as my husband likes to say.
Best wishes to everyone and please by all means, STAY SAFE!
if your ever looking for a younger bull hit me up.
You’re absolutely right. As for myself, I never pretend to be the wife or mislead anyone. However, I understand that there are a lot of weirdo’s who are seeking arousal without their girls knowledge.
it’s good for you to bring this to peoples attention.
Exact same here.
Right on with your post. Me (hubby) will almost always start the conversation on here. Once I see a genuine real bull who can chat with respect, then wifey takes it from there. Usually over kik or another platform. It's funny when the guy can't talk to the husband. If you can't at least do that, you lose your chance at step 2. It's been rather easy for us to filter this way. We know what we/she likes and it usually works out. A meet and greet before any playtime is a must as well. We call it a chemistry check. If it's there, then you can imagine the rest....
I glad this thread started. I always made the assumption that the 'bulls' would know they would be talking to the husband on the initial inquiry stage, it seemed logical to me, but how wrong I was!
I have always been the gatekeeper for my wife. She just isn't interested in the porno side of this and just gets off on the actual act. As others have said similar, my wife gets interested when I sift out the dickheads and find someone that I like, that she might like, and there is a realistic chance to meet with respect to time, distance etc.
If in the initial conversation the guy thinks I'm the Mrs, it's just easy to go with it. After 2 exchanges you get a feeling if it is going anywhere. Then I either drop it, or set the record straight.
It worked for us as you can see from our catalogue. But we are coming to the end of this lifestyle, so I'm just happy to look in every once in a while.
I have always been the gatekeeper for my wife. She just isn't interested in the porno side of this and just gets off on the actual act. As others have said similar, my wife gets interested when I sift out the dickheads and find someone that I like, that she might like, and there is a realistic chance to meet with respect to time, distance etc.
If in the initial conversation the guy thinks I'm the Mrs, it's just easy to go with it. After 2 exchanges you get a feeling if it is going anywhere. Then I either drop it, or set the record straight.
It worked for us as you can see from our catalogue. But we are coming to the end of this lifestyle, so I'm just happy to look in every once in a while.
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