A note to the "Bulls" and Black men on this site

[69 Leena]

It is very frustrating when we have in our bio what we are into. Yet you still get nonstop you want to meet for a ******* or you should call me. It’s like we are in the movie dumb and dumber when Jim Carey goes so you’re saying there’s a chance. Seriously
We bring a guy in to add to our sex life not subtract from it. If Leena wanted to hook up on the side I’d leave her and if I was to be with other women on the side she would leave me.

 

[nobook]

It is very frustrating when we have in our bio what we are into. Yet you still get nonstop you want to meet for a ******* or you should call me. It’s like we are in the movie dumb and dumber when Jim Carey goes so you’re saying there’s a chance. Seriously
We bring a guy in to add to our sex life not subtract from it. If Leena wanted to hook up on the side I’d leave her and if I was to be with other women on the side she would leave me.

Miss L ….I like 69
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[GC66]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

I got that the first time I posted. Honesty is very important both people should be here to post what they are looking for.

 

[GC66]

What`s preferable, i wonder:

(A) A single man posing as a couple,
(B) A white husband posing as his wife, or
(C) A married Black man posing as a single "bull"?

Please, tell me which of these three you think is most appropriate.
T.Y.

I'm Human not a freaking bull.

 

[GC66]

what's the difference between a "House black man" VS Cotton picking black man" they both still black man.

 

[joe0077]

Hubby make all contacts to start, the wife reviews with hubby and then we decide. that's how we work

I think you right! even though your talking to the husband the wife knows everything about; so the bull has to be patient because the couple behind the scene it's working everything out.

 

[Cheer_Capt22]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Then apparently that girl should be smart and leave. Sounds like a bunch of bullshit to me or your one of the girls that caught there bf or husband being bisexual and your playing of as a man.

 

[Jamie durrence]

This thread actually hits home with us. It couldn't be more true! We get contacted by many couples. Most pretend to be the women. But we have our ways and know that we are always talking to the husband or male!!!
Me and my husband both use the site. So it's always smart to ask and never assume.
We've learned there are many actors and people who enjoy lying on this site! Best always to use caution and never assume anything about the person you think you are conversating with.

Do y’all ever get up to Jacksonville?

 

[Miamicouple]

Do y’all ever get up to Jacksonville?

No. Sorry

 

[Hitalitivory]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Me the husband communicates and does the shopping for the wife I Christmas shop unless knowing it’s something she would like . We have a rule Wednesday is woman’s day she inspects what I have shopped for her kinda like slacks what will fit the best. She views on Wednesday and Discuss this with me for upcoming meeting Happy hump day !

 

[Hitalitivory]

Me the husband communicates and does the shopping for the wife I Christmas shop unless knowing it’s something she would like . We have a rule Wednesday is woman’s day she inspects what I have shopped for her kinda like slacks what will fit the best. She views on Wednesday and Discuss this with me for upcoming meeting Happy hump day !

Thank you for the like

 

[KayandJack]

I (husband) do the initial legwork and contact. Then if the prospective guy is interested I will run it by Kay. If she likes what she sees then it usually goes forward with her chatting with him on Kik and deciding when to set up a meet. I do most of the work, she finalizes and has the fun.

If you contact us and don't hear back immediately... or don't get Kik contact info... don't be discouraged. Life keeps us pretty busy. *******, work, bills, etc... all come first in life. We make time for fun when we HAVE time.

J&K

 

[cuckcplSTL]

I (husband) do the initial legwork and contact. Then if the prospective guy is interested I will run it by Kay. If she likes what she sees then it usually goes forward with her chatting with him on Kik and deciding when to set up a meet. I do most of the work, she finalizes and has the fun.

If you contact us and don't hear back immediately... or don't get Kik contact info... don't be discouraged. Life keeps us pretty busy. *******, work, bills, etc... all come first in life. We make time for fun when we HAVE time.

J&K

What they said……

 

[Funmainecouple]

We've experienced numerous examples where guys were rude, gross or presumptive once they connect with her online, so almost always her first contact is during a meet and greet in person. Until then, the communication runs through the husband for us.

 

[BBCinvancouver]

What`s preferable, i wonder:

(A) A single man posing as a couple,
(B) A white husband posing as his wife, or
(C) A married Black man posing as a single "bull"?

Please, tell me which of these three you think is most appropriate.
T.Y.

Oh yeah. "Bulls" are just supposed to have huge cocks, and stay single to be available in order to service your married wives or girlfriends. Makes sense.

 

[CagedPleasures]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Say it louder for the folks in the back

 

[Boneslinger2003]

I guess it really depends on what you're trying to attract. The guys who are just here looking for some 'easy' pussy are mainly going to be the ones assuming that every profile with a female pic is an actual female. However, the Bulls who truly have an understanding about this lifestyle would most likely prefer to deal with a husband who is being honest about his situation so that they know what they're up against. Personally, I don't mind talking to husbands as I find they are a tremendous source of information. I would just rather they be honest from the beginning. That is why I tailor my questions to get to the heart of the matter.

The fact that you have to tell so called Bulls this is mind boggling to me… but I guess we all start somewhere.

 

[AstralEnergy]

Ok I've been on this site for some time now and I continue to see something that perplexes me a bit. We all know that there are a lot of husbands here without their wives knowledge and they will have a profile with either both of their pics or their wife's pic. I wonder how many of you realize that even if it is a genuine couple, the majority of the time it is the husband who handles most of the online accounts. Yet I continue to see guy after guy approaching couples as if they are talking to the wife. You do realize that if it is in fact the husband you are talking to then he will usually just play along and what you wind up doing is having a conversation with him pretending to be her all because you made that assumption. I follow a very simple rule, whenever I see a couple's profile, I ALWAYS assume that I am talking to the husband. Trust me, if you take this route and it does turn out to be the wife you are talking to, she WILL correct you. However, if you assume that every profile with a woman's pic is actually the woman you are talking to then you will just continue to show your inexperience and the fact that you are way too eager. Just a PSA from your friendly neighborhood Bull.

Hands down , this has helped me. Every couple profile I always speak as if im talking to the husband and the wife will say its her or not.

 

[James Moody]

I haven’t ran into a real woman yet on this site. Lots of catfish though. Nobody seems to have a working camera when it’s time to verify themselves. SMH

Catfishers - Yes. Fakers - Yes. But I can attest that there are real women here to meet...

 

[flexit]

I have met 2 women from this site so far…yes there are lots of fakes and time wasters on here absolutely…..you just have to learn how too weed em out.