She is curious. The grass is greener on the other side. If she does it and finds out its not greener, she gets over her curiosity, has no regrets about never trying, and remains in the marriage. No harm no foul. On the other hand, if she determines it is greener, she decides whether she wants to address her desire with her husband and see if he will go along or she moves on.
Young, married, and REALLY wishing I could get my husband into the whole cuckold thing...
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Not a physically violent one. I have encountered a very pissed off one. But then again, I knocked up his wife without knowledge she was fooling around outside of the marriage.
There are ways to avoid those situations (even though, i am guilty of producing a wonderful baby with one women). You are lucky. You have a very understanding husband. In my experience, that is not the norm.
Craig Rudd
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Oh man. It's not for everyone. It took me a long time to get use to it. She was sexual before I became her man, so I just rolled into her sexual lifestyle.
What is so bad about men she chooses pampering her, showering her with gifts, trips and attention? Well other than my feelings and my time away from her..... It is difficult.
scottmoriarty
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This is not meant to offend, however, the question must be asked. Are you advising her for her benefit or yours? Let me rephrase/phrase that better. Is the advice to the benefit of the wife or the BBC looking only to bed her for that moment? I ask because your perspective doesn't take into account the destruction stemming from this nor the major undertaking towards piecing things back together. Again, not an attack...it is a sincere question
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Your first post says a lot, actually. Hope you get the help and answers you're looking for. As a young couple you should relax and take your time exploring your sexual interests as a couple. You have plenty of time to add "spice" to your married sex life. The fact that you say you're inexperienced with this activity makes me question whether you really know what you are pursuing. Cuckolding is basically "sexually sharing a wife with other men". Often the male partner of a married couple might find doing this as a visual turn-on which often results in the couple being/staying in a heighted state of sexual arousal for longer periods of time.
Is it just "larger cocks" that you desire to experience or is it the variety of "other men" you desire? Being so inexperienced, I imagine its "both" for both you and your husband.
Don't neglect the fact that your husband might enjoy a similar activity for himself with your help once the two of you start this activity. How is your attitude of sharing your husband with another woman? Maybe a MFF 3-some would turn your husband's arousal state up as well. Have you ever wondered what being with another female would be like? Men love the fantasy of watching two turned-on females going at each other.
My point is that there are so many variations of sexual relationships that making it just about cuckolding (wife & other men) may be short changing your overall marital experiences for the two of you.
So, be willing to consider options like MMF, FFM, couple swaps, etc when they present themselves. Couple swaps, while sounding like a great way to get into experiencing other sexual options sounds "fair" to both, they are often harder to arrange as it only takes one of four in the swap to not be turned on for some reason to ruin the whole couple swap. We've found that 3-somes are easier to arrange (particularly MMF's), but the FFM's are often mind-bending experiences as well.
I hope you'll keep this forum updated with your progression into these activities. Welcome to B&W
Mac
Just wait eventually you will, and might not give a ******* about prison. We dont fuck around with cheaters. Bc if it happened to me, I'd definitely be in jail and probably not getting out.
OP gone like a fart in the wind y’all
I have no stake in this game. Its for the benefit of the wife (and the marriage quite frankly). She has doubts and regrets and needs to get them behind her if the marriage is to survive.
You could benefit from some counseling.
Lol. People are crazy now a days. Put stress, anger, emotions and add infidelity will be explosive. Disrespect a husband by fucking his wife without permission and knock her up?? Omg
Nothin wrong except you shouldn’t fell lonely at all especially only 2 treats into your marriage…you need to be treated like the sexual lady you are
Suggest that he buy you a toy and start looking for some online together
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