Young, married, and REALLY wishing I could get my husband into the whole cuckold thing...

[CheatingBBC]

So I am, in a lot of ways I guess, sort of a quintessential basic white girl. I'm 24, and I married my highschool boyfriend two years ago, and he's basically the only man I've been with. For most of my life both of us have been pretty vanilla. Like, not total prudes just sort of plain. I've been in a housewife era this last year and sort of discovered this whole world via porn and all through being bored home alone and all, and I sort of surprised myself by how obsessive I got. I feel like I'm sort of at the point now where I want it to be real so bad that it's driving me sort of crazy. I was googling advice today and found this forum and I don't even know if I'm posting right but I was just looking for advice I guess. Sorry if I did something wrong!

Show him us fucking as say this is your reality now..

 

[CuckDave]

that makes sense...

Try the Mountain Between Us.. That is a good mainstream movie with IR sex the centerpiece.. Ask him what he would think if it was you in the movie.. and then buy a 10 inch black dildo.. and have him use it on you.. that should start the conversation of BBC.. and what they do to white pussy..

 

[NJHubnWife]

I know those type of seasoned/experienced couples exist (especially on sites like this one) but in my experience they are few and far between. She has this fantasy about BBC. Is it real or not? It will bug her for the rest of her life if she doesn't take action. She could discuss with her husband but unless he is open to it (which is possible, but rare) she is not going to get satisfaction and could permanently damage her marriage. Is she willing to take that risk without even knowing if her fantasy is a reality. My advice still is: try BBC and then make an informed decision as to whether you want to address it with your husband.

And what happens when the angry husband goes after the guy? or her? Best bet, have a conversation with the husband. If he isn't interested, then get a divorce and get all the black cock she wants. Maybe convince him to try swinging, then progress from there.

 

[Jam11722]

And what happens when the angry husband goes after the guy? or her? Best bet, have a conversation with the husband. If he isn't interested, then get a divorce and get all the black cock she wants. Maybe convince him to try swinging, then progress from there.

She doesn't have to reveal she had the experience. She has the conversation you are recommending but after she knows for sure that is what she wants. You are coming from the perspective that the husband is going to agree to this. In most cases this is not going to happen. More likely (but still not probable) to happen if she is prepared to leave him if he doesn't agree. IMO, better she know what she is getting into before having this conversation

 

[Witegirl]

I wish I knew how to even bring it up...

He probably fantasizes about it but is scared to really do it. Bring it up as a joke unless he's not the type.. see if he takes the convo bait lol

 

[Jam11722]

I've been threatened more by husbands/bf who after I fucked their women with them present and under their rules, I told the women if there is a next time its under my rules (and, in most cases the women have agreed).

 

[Ips]

like suggest we watch it together?

Present it as a fantasy you want to share. Tell your hubby that you’ve watched bbc porn and it turned you on. Ask him if you loves to watch your favorite porn video.

 

[NJHubnWife]

I've been threatened more by husbands/bf who after I fucked their women with them present and under their rules, I told the women if there is a next time its under my rules (and, in most cases the women have agreed).

I guess you havent fucked over the wrong husband "Yet"

 

[NJHubnWife]

She doesn't have to reveal she had the experience. She has the conversation you are recommending but after she knows for sure that is what she wants. You are coming from the perspective that the husband is going to agree to this. In most cases this is not going to happen. More likely (but still not probable) to happen if she is prepared to leave him if he doesn't agree. IMO, better she know what she is getting into before having this conversation

Unless she comes back with something, ie std or a baby. Total disrespect to their marriage. I hate being a buzz *******, but this would be wrong.

 

[old-man]

That being the case, then it is imperative that she have a deeper, in some aspects tough, conversation with her husband about her desire - absent coercion or undue influence, repercussion, and reprisal - prior to embarking on this journey!

Keep in mind, and judging from the assumptions I made from her writings, they are fledglings thus are not yet developed nor equipped to endure the whirlwind of challenges that most certainly will come from the advice you gave.

Please know, I am not casting any aspersions towards you or specifically the advice you provided; Just highlighting that said advice is better handled by more seasoned/experienced couples who have developed some level of fortitude to deal with such challenges. That's not to say seasoned couples won't be challenged by it, but through life and other worldly experiences will have a few 'tools' or 'avenues' to engage the challenge without it causing total destruction.

Again, the intent is to have both freely go into this lifestyle of their own volition, embrace their new found roles, and not harbor any resentment/hatred towards the other.

All of this is my sole opinion and is not an indictment nor reflection of any other opinion (favorable or not)...

Marriage is built on affection and respect between spouses

When a third person enters between them and is given freedom of action

The marriage will end here
Grudges grow in the hearts between spouses

Trust me, this is what will happen

There are many experiences in this regard

A point of view that can be wrong or right

 

[BlakCoksMatter]

So I am, in a lot of ways I guess, sort of a quintessential basic white girl. I'm 24, and I married my highschool boyfriend two years ago, and he's basically the only man I've been with. For most of my life both of us have been pretty vanilla. Like, not total prudes just sort of plain. I've been in a housewife era this last year and sort of discovered this whole world via porn and all through being bored home alone and all, and I sort of surprised myself by how obsessive I got. I feel like I'm sort of at the point now where I want it to be real so bad that it's driving me sort of crazy. I was googling advice today and found this forum and I don't even know if I'm posting right but I was just looking for advice I guess. Sorry if I did something wrong!

Porn. It all begins with interracial porn and getting his mind on black as well while enjoying sex or sexual activity with you. Eventually they will become merged in his mind, but its a process so the soooner you start the sooner you will have a superior 10 inch thick daddy dick making your cream like you have never done before, while your husband simply asks if he can get you some water when your done. Watch some of the mainstream stuff at first like blacked series so it doesnt just shock him. You dont want to start out watching black cock ******* videos just yet! But ultimately, keep bringing it up and i continues to deny you then maybe you might need to just find what you need by youself. Either way, you should be serving black men somehow.

 

[BlakCoksMatter]

Show him us fucking as say this is your reality now..

she should deefinitely at the very least start connecting with black men and offering her throat.

 

[scottmoriarty]

I know those type of seasoned/experienced couples exist (especially on sites like this one) but in my experience they are few and far between. She has this fantasy about BBC. Is it real or not? It will bug her for the rest of her life if she doesn't take action. She could discuss with her husband but unless he is open to it (which is possible, but rare) she is not going to get satisfaction and could permanently damage her marriage. Is she willing to take that risk without even knowing if her fantasy is a reality. My advice still is: try BBC and then make an informed decision as to whether you want to address it with your husband.

Yeah, but it's still placing the cart before the horse. She needs to give her husband, respectfully, the choice and not f o r c e it upon him or c o e r c e/m a n i p u l a t e him into it - That will surely bring about her worst fears, with respect to the marriage, if not broached properly.

Imagine a scenario where you, as a husband, discover that your wife has been secretly bedding BBC outside of your marriage without ever telling you about her desire for it or involving you. With the trust now destroyed, how can you, the husband, now accept or venture into a arrangement with her that is based on pure and unwavering trust? As her husband, after the 'infraction' for lack of a better phrase, I will harbor feelings that lead me to believe I am an after thought or that my feelings or involvement are immaterial in the grand scheme.

 

[scottmoriarty]

She doesn't have to reveal she had the experience. She has the conversation you are recommending but after she knows for sure that is what she wants. You are coming from the perspective that the husband is going to agree to this. In most cases this is not going to happen. More likely (but still not probable) to happen if she is prepared to leave him if he doesn't agree. IMO, better she know what she is getting into before having this conversation

Then it begs the questions 1) If her ultimate desire is to do it without her husband, why seek public advice as to how she should introduce it to the marriage? 2) Why remain in or care about the marriage?

 

[scottmoriarty]

Marriage is built on affection and respect between spouses

When a third person enters between them and is given freedom of action

The marriage will end here
Grudges grow in the hearts between spouses

Trust me, this is what will happen

There are many experiences in this regard

A point of view that can be wrong or right

I am fully aligned with this perspective!

Let me elaborate on one of your points. Given the wife's sole approval, when a third party is given unabated access / unrestricted liberties to the wife, and their combined movements and/or decisions are exclusive of the husband, then the husband becomes 'collateral damage' and asked to leave. It's a matter of when...not if.

 

[Hulk]

I've never seen or heard of a young married woman that had this strong urge to turn her highschool sweetheart (now husband) into a cuckold. Given OP is unverified; undoubtedly gay male fingers typed the original post. Many such cases.

 

[scottmoriarty]

I've never seen or heard of a young married woman that had this strong urge to turn her highschool sweetheart (now husband) into a cuckold. Given OP is unverified; undoubtedly gay male fingers typed the original post. Many such cases.

I'll defer to your experience as it relates to this. I'm relatively new to the lifestyle and have not experienced the levels of deception one incurs in it

 

[Hulk]

I'll defer to your experience as it relates to this. I'm relatively new to the lifestyle and have not experienced the levels of deception one incurs in it

Completely understood. I think once you start spending some time on this site and interacting with a few people, you begin to pick up on who is legit and who is likely faking. I wish everyone could simply be open and honest. If they want to delve into fantasy, there are specific threads for that in the forum too.

 

[scottmoriarty]

Completely understood. I think once you start spending some time on this site and interacting with a few people, you begin to pick up on who is legit and who is likely faking. I wish everyone could simply be open and honest. If they want to delve into fantasy, there are specific threads for that in the forum too.

appreciate you both!

 

[whitepvnda]

So last night based on the advice I got here I very stumbling and awkwardly asked if he ever thought of watching porn together when we were cuddling and kissing some. He got a little awkward and nervous but seemed sort of eager too which was surprising. So we decided to try it together. When we opened pornhub on our TV literally the first video at the top of page was from Blacked so I just told him I'd click on the first thing and I think because we were both nervous he just said sure. We watched the whole thing together, cuddling. I could tell he was hard and I asked him if he wanted to jack off and at first he said he thought that would be weird but I kept encouraging him and he did.

I would never have tried any of that and it was actually an amazing experience so I'm actually hopeful we can go from here!

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